Your favourite sexual stimulation for orgasm

When you have sex with somebody how do you prefer to achieve orgasm? I mean, what is your favourite kind of stimulation when experiencing orgasm? Please, choose one of the options according to your gender (indicated in brackets).

manual stimulation (I am female) 4
manual stimulation (I am male) 2
oral sex (I am female) 4
oral sex (I am male) 8
intercourse = penis in vagina (I am female) 5
intercourse = penis in vagina (I am male) 9
anal sex (I am female) 2
anal sex (I am male) 5
self-stimulation (I am female) 2
self-stimulation (I am male) 0
I do not have orgasms during sex with another person (I am female) 1
I do not have orgasms during sex with another person (I am male) 0
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  • TerryVie

    As a matter of fact, manual stimulation.
    If done right, the easiest way for me to get multiple orgasms.
    Also, can be done in public :)

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    • anti-hero

      I like this answer.

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  • Wendell

    What's diff between manual and self?

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    • Manual - your partner´s hand gives you an orgasm.

      Self - your own hand gives you an orgasm.

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  • howaminotmyself

    It really depends on the day. What worked yesterday may not do it tonight. But I'm curious to see what does work.

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  • bostonpuckbunny37

    I mean sexual stimulation from a partner is an amazing thing but no one knows how to make me feel as good as I do lol had to go with masturbation:-)

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  • prasatko

    It really depends on many things...mindset, what kind of activities preceded the final stage,etc.

    In general, I prefer handjobs, blowjobs and coitus as ways of reaching my orgasms and if one or more of them are absent for some period of time, I start to miss it very much. So my answer might vary depending on the short and long term framework.

    As I have sexual obsession with female hands, it is logical that handjobs are my number one, all other things being equal. But again it depends: when the handjob is done only because the woman refuses to do anything else, then it is not OK.
    Handjobs with the right attitude - when she is turned on by it and does it also for her own excitement and with other kinds of positive motivation (e.g. when she knows what it is doing with me sexually and she likes it) are the right ones for me...

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  • dappled

    I don't have a preference. It depends on the situation or how I'm feeling or what she wants. Sometimes you're really in the mood for something. Sometimes it's something else.

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  • anti-hero

    I voted:

    Intercourse = penis in vagina (I am male).

    It's hard to beat.

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