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My brother is a pain in the neck. When i touch his stuff he says i cant then he goes and tells my mom.
Then he comes and plays with my stuff.
and i cant do anything about it.
My mom always listens to him because he's younger than i am. I cant stand it. i feel like i want to kill him...
But i know i cant.Because he's still my brother no matter what he does.
IS THAT NORMAL?
You are normal.
What you're experiencing is what many others have experienced before as a child.
I am your total opposite. When I was a child, my brother used to bully me alot, snatch my toys, play pranks on me, beat me up for nothing and even sabotaged me or malighned me of things I have never done. But I could not talk back to them because they are older than me. I could not do anything to protect myself because they are bigger, taller and stronger than me. And being Asian, my traditional mother has always doted on my brother more. I could do nothing.
But slowly as I grow up, I finally understood how stupid it was to snatch toys, play pranks and stuff. When you grow up you will think the same too. Also now I don't fight with my brother anymore, because I love my brother. I don't blame my mother anymore, because I love my mother even if she was biased towards my brothers. Being treated 'unfairly' made me grow up fast and made me think maturely like an adult.
In life there are many other things to worry about other than toys. Toys are only a very small facet of your childhood.
It doesn't matter if your younger brother touches your stuff. Take it with pride and with love. Because he's your younger brother, and you love him so much, that's why you're letting him play with the toys that belong to you.
You are messing with his things. You need to not mess with his stuff and respect his space. Ask before you use something or else it is very rude. You sound more like the little bro as you do not seem to respect boundaries.
Oh honey that's exactly the same as me! I was the eldest and to be honest I hated my brother but inside I loved him to bits. You need time to mature, then you'll learn to treat each other with equality and respect.
Talk to your mom - when something isn't going on that you are upset about - about her being fair and equal with rules. She shouldn't get on your case about touching his stuff, but not on his about touching yours (or maybe she does & you don't know). Anyway, the moral is if its not yours, don't touch it, and should apply equally.
i hate my brother as well but not to the point where i want to kill him. I think you need psycotherapy. get help soon!
Totally normal.
Take it as a compliment that he finds your toys more interesting to play with. Maybe you could play with your toys together and you could teach him a thing or two about what it is to be an older kid.