Young interracial love in nyc?!?!

Love knows no boundaries, love is blind.

I honestly don't know what is the problem OP.

Love has no race >:(

i just have to say i do like the ghetto black chick thing its exotic to me i live in the white capital of america and just recently through work started to meet a plethora of people of other races and i find myself attracted to most of the girls of other races there just so new and exciting they think act and carry themselves completely different then the girls im used be it a spanish girl with a cute accent or a black chick with a big booty (not there only good quality like i said just much diffrent then what im used to) but i dont know i think your normal there are plenty of fish in the sea why limit your self based on something so silly as the color of your skin or the neighborhood your from... by the way you described your self you sound like an amazing girl and any guy would be lucky to have someone like you

"'ve been described as sweet, charming, funny, laid-back, adventurous, spontaneous, cute, fun, a great listener, supportive, non-judgmental, creative, and an overall positive thinker." and humble too I guess.

You can't help who you fall for :)

You name positives about yourself as if only white men have those traits. You seem like another self hating black girl. If your attraction was honest, you wouldn't feel the need to ask for validation off strangers.

Girl, if this is who I think it is then you got it goin' on and ya know I'm rootin' for ya! Just keep on being yourself cause you've got a style all your own and it ain't nobody's business who you choose to bless with your love as long as that love is true.

My boyfriend is black, and he always points at the fact that for him to date me is easier than dating another black dude, because of all kind of stigmas and family issues, I'm Spanish European, and he's very comfortable with my family. Now, if we go to his parents, we even have to sleep in separate rooms! At my parents, even my dad jokes with him about who's "the girl"!!!!....then he answers all the time,...."I know my boy is the man here!,...cuz if he takes what that guy is packing!....U got to be a Man!

Anything goes in NYC

You should be with whomever you please in a perfect world. Unfortunately, it is not a perfect world, so you must be strong enough to ignore everyone else, if you choose to be different. My gf and I are 40+ years apart and we get a lot of shitty looks and rude comments from people whose business it is not. There have even been a few who have made awful, ugly comments about my gf here, on IIN, without ever meeting her or reading a post from her (she doesn't post here).
You may not be able to choose who you are attracted to, but you do have a choice as to whether that choice will ruin your life. Fuck all those small minded individuals who will try to make your life miserable, and fuck the horse they rode in on, too.

Ha this isn't a personals ad - I don't think you'll find a man via http://isitnormal.com unfortunately.

Also, I can't speak for NYC, but plenty of interracial relationships involve the white-guy-black-girl arrangement. Don't let the fear of stigma put you off pursuing your preference.

If you think vanilla guys might be put off by the stereotype of the aggressive, loud, ghetto black girl that they love to wheel out on TV/movies, that's a shame. You might have to work harder to show how obviously different from the stereotype you are, which may involve you making the first move.