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Why do some of you feel that many young attractive women are prejudiced towards ugly guys and refuse to see any good qualities that they may have under the surface? I have my own opinions why, I'm just wondering what some of the rest of you think.
Guys don't like ugly women and they expect girls to like ugly guys wow.....
What's wrong with just dating ugly women who are in your league? Its completely natural for attractive people to prefer other attractive people! Birds of a feather flock together, like attracts like. There's nothing more boring, and superficial than ugly people who are bitter, because beautiful people aren't attracted to them. Just get over it, and and go for someone who is your equal!
I've said this before. They don't HATE ugly guys. They're just not going to settle for one, when they have options because more people will naturally be checking for them. They get the first pick of the litter when they're attractive and they're generally going to choose their male counterpart. That might not be "fair" but it's reality, and it's not changing.
If you want a beautiful girl then you have to acquiesce to what they want and get on their level. Hit the gym, eat better, take care of your looks, and not just that get your confidence up and maybe consider a career change if your current job sucks. That's what it takes, sorry I don't make the rules, I'm just a gay man sitting on the sidelines.
No double standards on this either, same rules apply to less attractive women. If you want a man who is not only attractive, but also a quality man, husband material and a good provider and protector of women, then you need to acquiesce to what those men like. Take care of your looks, get your shit together, play up your femininity.
Because we live in a world of superficiality, where first impressions are almost everything.
You will find that young attractive men will also reject so called ugly females.
There is always one quality that can make even the ugliest person, young or old, seem much more attractive. The quality of their credit card.
What you said is spot on. It reminds me of some of the people I knew. They were mostly lazy people who never took care of their appearance and had bad hygiene, yet they got upset when a muscular man or a fit woman wouldn't give them the time of day. A good portion of their daily Facebook posts were all "women are bitches" and "men are dogs." If they lowered their standards just a little, they might find someone who's just like them, but they just kept chasing perfect looking people and growing more bitter.
Some people can't fix them. Some people may have ugly faces or features that can't be controlled. They're the ones that are gonna have to learn to face their truths and lower their standards. They have to deal with the truth, if a guy has ugly physical characteristics that can't be changed, then he is either gonna have to find a less attractive plain looking woman, or find a way to become rich, but then the hot girl is only gonna want him for his money. It's not want they may want to hear, but in the real world, the truth sucks, it's not a fair world.
I am a young attractive man (all my gfs told me this, not self-praising or any of that) and I don't reject what most men around me consider ugly females. Yeah, everyone told me I have very low standards and all that, but that's how I feel.
It's because they're young and attractive. When you're a young cute girl who can have anybody, naturally you're going to want somebody who's on the same level as you. It's a fact that couples who aren't on the same page look wise, are typically more unsatisfied. It might sound shallow, but the difference between a friendship and a relationship is the sexual attraction. Why as an ugly boy, would you look specifically for a young hot girl? The sexual attraction. So why do you think they'd want they'd want to be with somebody they're not sexually attracted to when they could be. They wouldn't. You can't date somebody you're not attracted to, you just can't. And if you think i'm wrong, why don't you go date an ugly girl that's actually in your league instead of complaining about how hot young bitches wont jump on your dick when you have literally nothing to bring to the table for them. Complaining about not having a hot girl when you're an ugly guy isn't just the most retarded, fucking loser thing to say, but it's selfish. What's in it for them? Let me guess, your unique great personality? You sound like a fucking creep, and it's laughable how ironic it is that you're complaining about hot girls being shallow, when you're the one who's being a shallow fuck.
Because ugly's ugly. The good news is women aren't really as attracted to looks as we are, if you've got good game then even if you're ugly you can pick up girls. I really think one of the best strategies is just straight fucking hardcore confidence.
It's how the world works... You judge people firstly by their looks. Would you date a fat and ugly chick? I wouldn't...
The only way you see hotties with ugly men is when the ugly men have cash. But sadly more and more women fall into this gold digger pit, even if men aren't ugly.
Back when I was 1st year in college, I managed to score some really pretty girls, by ordering bottle service (friend of mine owns the club, so it was dirt cheap for me), acting like a rich douchebag, lying and showing them my Mercedes. Worked like a charm.
Before I flaunted my fake-rich lifestyle, they'd say "I have a boyfriend". After showing them loaded pockets, they magically become single.
Also have realistic standards... You can't be a short and ugly guy and expect a sexy supermodel next to you. Same for women.
I'm more turned off by lack of confidence. Perhaps if you think you are ugly, you project it.
I don't really care what most guys look like.
But are you young and attractive?
Give me some details. Hair color? Height? Fit? Measurements? Please, I've been wondering actually after seeing your comments on every post there is. ;)
So then because the world is superficial, I should put a sock in my pants to give me a good man bulge. Then I just tell all the girls who will want me to go home with them that sorry I have other commitments. Is this what you are saying?
pooping is not good. i mean we do have to process food, but what the fudge is this even about? no one who treats people right is unattractive. it sucks that all of you are unattractive enough to call people unattractive. men suck so horribly. women suck so horribly. but this is condition of treating people like fudge. once again. you people need to start getting to know people and treat them right before from a distance you say that they are unattractive.
But the only reason I'd need a bridge is to hide all the dead bodies under.
Besides how much would that bridge run me for anyways?
Think of it like this:
Why do guys hate fat chicks? I'm not talking OBESE, just husky (yah know, very curvy). Husky women are nice, sweet, and smart yet guys turn her down cause she likes food. What the fuck is up with that?
I'm a solid 5/10 after asking numerous females and ex-girlfriends. So it astonished me that they would be with me, even though they found me unattractive. So I asked them why they were with me, they said because my dick felt great. HAHA kidding.
They said it was because I was a fun, funny, and interesting person. A few of them also said that I was assertive and they found it sexy/attractive. I guess you can stop being so submissive and scared, it might help.
P.S I'm sure it was because of my little peewee though.
I'll be honest, when I was young, appearance mattered a lot to me but it's because I didn't know anything else. I had no experience in relationships so I didn't know to look much into other qualities. Also, hormones are raging which can make your brain ignore practically everything except physical qualities. This didn't last long though, I had a long-term short, fat, ugly, balding, small penis boyfriend when I was 21-22. He didn't have any money, he was a college student. He had a very charming and outgoing personality and had some interesting hobbies/talents. I'm married to a fat balding guy with bad teeth, he doesn't have a lot of money. Most people I know aren't good looking...look around you, not just at the people you find attractive...all kinds of people manage to hook up/date/marry.
You can always work on your appearance and personality, too. Nice clothes, haircut, good hygeine, get fit...find hobbies, become well-read/traveled, pick a subject and learn it back to front, get tips on socializing and conversation.
Yes, that will all help. But there are certain things about physical attractiveness that cannot be changed no matter how good you fix up your clothes, hair, hygiene, well rounded intellect, hobbies, wit, humor, social skills, and confidence. All those qualities will help you attract more women than if you didn't improve those qualities, but you still won't be able to attract as many hot women as someone who's rugged, strong, and handsome.
What you said about when people's hormones act up, they only see superficial physical characteristics in others. And that vary with the same person depending on where they are and when. Someone attractive will often automatically ignore someone ugly at a nightclub on a Saturday night and then maybe talk normally to that same person in a grocery store at 9am on a Tuesday morning. Seasons and weather make a difference also, hormones and shallowness both get stronger in the summer when it's hot.
i laugh my fucking head off whenever i see a hot number in her thirties that married the high school sweetie and he in ten years became the fat bald man. 9 times out of ten, there is your high school football team.