You get pregnant by a ons...what do you do?
Simple as that. You have a one night stand and get pregnant. What do you do?
| have the baby | 30 | |
| abort the baby | 47 |
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chained_rage
I would look down at my penis and go:
"What the fuck, man?! How am I gonna push a child out of you?!"
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Ace09
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DemonicFortuneCookie
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Dad
I'd say abortion too.
Obviously there are people that would keep it. Whatever they want.For the first 3 months of pregnancy the brain has not formed. And since souls aren't real then abortion is an option ;)
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SkahShiriki
I'd have the baby. In my opinion, you need to own up to your mistakes and not take a helpless beings life. So the baby might not be aware of what's going on, it might not have certain parts a full grown baby has, but it's still a living being. So if you can't take care of it, put it up for adoption. Be a surrogate mother. Don't take a life because you weren't careful enough. In my opinion, that's lazy. Yes, I know pregnancy is very hard for some people, but when it's your fault, it would be pretty messed up to do otherwise.
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bbl312
Hey you made the mistake. it's your fault for having the one night stand. Keep it. Deal with it. Don't take the easy way out and learn.
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wistfulmaiden
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HATIMTAI
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bbl312
In my opinion, these things exist for a reason. And if you take the risks by being careless, it is your own damn faulty. you should have to deal with the consequences.
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wistfulmaiden
Sorry if I was pissed off but taking a pill or slipping on a condom is so much easier than raising a baby you resent, giving away part of yourself, or having a fetus ripped in a bloody mass from your body.
I just don't get how people are so careless with their lives.Comment Hidden ( show )
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dongwhan
that baby even though it come from a ons is still a part of you and who you are so think about this you could start to get rid of the parts of yourself that you may not want...a thumb for example...you could cut it and it would be gone, no more thumb, but you would remember that for the rest of your life. don't listen to the haters that just want to kill all the babys. that baby is you! life matters!
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RoseIsabella
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dirtybirdy
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TheExiledOne
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Freedom_
With my luck, I would wish that I'd at least asked his name, but I didn't because I figured I'd forget it anyways. No ons for me.
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Crusades|
I'm pretty vehement about opposing children being raised by a single parent. So I voted for abortion.
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derpyderp
What's your reasoning for that?
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charli.m
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Crusades|
A child needs both biological parents in his life in order to properly develop both physically and intellectually.
I can't emphasize enough how damaging the lack of a parent can be for both the child and the single parent.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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derpyderp
I have to disagree.
Especially about physical development.
How do you figure that?I was raised by a single mother & turned out just fine if I do say so myself.
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charli.m
He's half right...just twisting the facts. Ideally, a child is best raised by two parents. Ans that's best for the parents as well. Single parenting isn't necessarily a bad thing. I know I was better off without my father around. In this situation, having two parents would have been disastrous for me any my brother, as proven by the shitty fucked up life my sister has.
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https://blogs.wsj.com/economics/2012/09/12/children-of-single-parents-much-more-likely-in-poverty/
https://www.familyfacts.org/briefs/35/family-structure-and-childrens-education
https://family-studies.org/children-in-single-parent-families-are-more-likely-to-witness-domestic-violence/
https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/publications/abstract.aspx?ID=167327
https://www.childtrends.org/?indicators=births-to-unmarried-women
https://wwlp.com/2014/12/01/report-children-in-single-parent-homes-face-greater-risks/
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Crusades|
http://family-studies.org/children-in-single-parent-families-are-more-likely-to-witness-domestic-violence/
https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/publications/abstract.aspx?ID=167327
http://www.childtrends.org/?indicators=births-to-unmarried-women
http://wwlp.com/2014/12/01/report-children-in-single-parent-homes-face-greater-risks/
http://www.familyfacts.org/briefs/35/family-structure-and-childrens-education
http://blogs.wsj.com/economics/2012/09/12/children-of-single-parents-much-more-likely-in-poverty/
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Darkoil
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eastbeast
Can't agree with you there, I was raised by a single Mother, without any help from relatives or the state, very poor, a lot of disadvantages, most people who went through what we did would have become drug addicted drunks or suicide cases.
Its all about standards and how you are raised not what you have or get given.
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NeuroNeptunian
That's unlikely as I am on the IUD BUT... I'd keep the baby. I have wanted kids for many years, I have a good education and a decent job that is likely to promote me to a better paying position once I finish off my credential. I have a good support network including males who would make good role models for any child I may have. Hopefully, the father would want to stay in the picture. I was raised in a single parent home, I turned out fine. Statistics don't lie but as someone who works with troubled youth, I can tell you beyond the shadow of a doubt that my kids already have the advantage as I know from professional experience how to help them overcome the challenges of growing up in a single parent home.
Oh hey guys by the way, I got a job working as TA special education with troubled youth yeah.
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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
How does the father feel?. Maybe he's a good guy maybe he isn't. Maybe he'll help you maybe he won't. Either way this poor sod is going to be paying for that nut the next 18 years.
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dongwhan
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There are approximately 150,000 children in America alone waiting to be adopted.
Add on the fact that too many thousands of children to mention in 3rd world countries would give their own parents lives to be allowed to be adopted by any civilized country.Placing your (new) child up for adoption is NOT the answer. It may be more likely that you provide an entire childhood of depression.
Statistics always sound bad, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Fall_leaves
Keep it but I don't mind others decision to abort. I know I would make a good mother with or without the support of my child's father, though ideally I would like them to be involved.
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