You found your dream lover, but you hate their family. what do you do?

Let's say that you've found your dream lover. He/she is everything you've ever wanted, and the only person you would ever want. He/she is gorgeous looking, honest, compassionate, loyal, fun, interesting, basically the whole package and a once in a lifetime opportunity.

But, the only problem is his/her family. The fathers' a racist and raging alcoholic, the mothers' a hoarding paranoid penny pincher, and the sons' a self-centered waste of a life who thinks he's entitled to everything.

The funny thing is that your family and his/her family actually get along perfectly. It's just you that they have the problem with.

The only times that you HAVE to see his family, is during special occasions and major holidays in which you do not enjoy a single moment with them around.

Would you stay with your dream lover and put up with his family like this every once in a while, or would you end the relationship and find someone else who will NEVER be as perfect?

I would stay with my dream lover. Love conquers all. 55
Getting along with family is a big deal for me. I'd find someone else. 11
I don't know what I'd do. 8
Other (Add a comment) 5
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Comments ( 17 )
  • lady6sky

    as long as your guy protects you from his family's madness and back you up when u need, i think it is a deal. good luck!

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  • AmvEditor

    I can't answer , a dream lover of mien wouldn't let her family to be a problem.

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  • dddoraaa

    So if the boy is very nice and cool i would straight up tell him that i don't like his family and we should do something in order to avoid seeing them .. If he's as nice and lovely as you think he'd accept this

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  • Corleone

    That's your decision to make.

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  • Weirdoguy

    Fuck her/him then break up

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  • Andyen

    i would love to say that love conqures all, but sadly that isn't true in some cases. I've been in this situation. The family in question compleatly made it their aim to squash any fun or love there was to be had between the two of us. We are still really close friends, but we decided to mutrally end our relationship do to the family controversy.

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  • imustbnutz

    I say leave the situation. Seriously it will take its toll on both of you later on down the track.

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  • HarringtonMD

    move out of the country. or hire a hitman. (just kidding!)
    seriosuly...move.

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  • Mrbojangles2592

    Very simple solution kill the family, if you need a hand id be happy to help.

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  • choloroto13

    fuck the the family u should love the lover

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  • extis

    usually you learn to deal with it, and once you start getting serious you don't really spend time with the whole family as much

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  • Flowers

    Ask my family for advice.

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  • Be polite and tolerate them.

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  • wigsplitz

    Hey, I think I know that family...

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  • timebobbu

    Simple just dont see them often

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  • SMILEifyourstupid

    Getting on with the family is a big deal, so normally I'd say you might want to reconsider a lifelong partnership, but since you said both your families are alike then I think you should stay with him :D

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  • I_steal_free_bread

    I dont know since I've never been in that sort of situation

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