You are her friends not mine.
Some old friends of my wife are black and myself and some friends of mine are really not comfortable having them around. The result being that none of my friends come to my house anymore. My wife and I argue about this all the time. Her friends can plainly see that I don't want them there, yet still they come over. I think it's to get free liquor. Or maybe free food. I really am going to make a unpleasant scene the next time these people come over. My wife will be pissed for a while but she'll get over it. I'll cap the booze right in front of them. Then I'll make a racial slur and laugh. Sound like a normal thing to do to get rid of them for good?