X step daughter attraction/problems
Recently my 23 yr old x-step daughter stayed with me. She has battled with loss of lifes purpose, heavy drinking, dropped out of college, dui now no license. I voluntered to help with life adjustment. I only knew her 4 out of 14 years but we got along for the most part when she did live with my x and I.
She suffers from low self esteem and confidence, a mentaly abussive step mother and Dad that seemed to think she could do nothing right. I have discovered that she is heavy into alcahol and has had 30 guys sexually, kinky sex. She is an affirmation black hole and is at a 16 year old emotional development level. She is very smart in science and math almost went to a military academy. She has shared issues with me, dicussed deep philosphy yet seems to need every mans attention in the bar if we go out. I find her extremely attractive physicly and mentally (when shes rational).I told her I was very attracted to her and would like to try a 2 yr relationship with her and I would pay for her college, expenses etc. Then she is free to go on with her life. She states she will always see me as her step father. I know I am not weird being attracted to her--she is so much like her mother inside with a pleasant and much better version, unique to herself looks wise.
How do I get her past the step father image to see a man that is very much crazy about her, plus I want to help her. I am a succesful, attractive, popular business man, perhaps she likes the young losers? I have expossed her to some of my major accomplishments but she seems unimpressed! And how do I kill the feelings for here if she wishes not to have anything to do with me?
How can I get her onboard with me?
Signed---
Mentally and sexually frustrated in Seattle!