Wtf is wrong with him?

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Hey everyone I have been a member of this forum for some time now just never post anything but I was wondering if I can get some advice that I dealing with right now. The first thing is I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend was supposed to comeback this month but now he won't!!! Anyway, because he wants me to come down there first which is going to cost quite some money and it's only for one day then we are coming back to PA! But my mom is willing to pay for his trip and he was going to stay at my house for free until he got a job which we told him no rush. But now since I won't come down there is won't come back here by himself which I don't understand! And earlier, he told me not to come, but when I told him I wasn't he went off on me. And I'm black and he is Mexican I think that what it is. I barely met his family but he iszalways around mine.

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  • Boobmaster68
    7 years ago

    He has reservations for some reason. Ask him straight up. WTF is going on. If he won't talk, dump his ass. If he wants to be with you, he will be.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Something is going on here that either your not telling us or hes not telling you. Sounds like its time to have a very important talk about your relationship this sort of issue shouldn't be causing this much drama.

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  • Damarixa
    7 years ago

    I dont think it has anything to do with race. Smh, idk what to say, I mean how long have you been with him?? A few flags, ask him straight out why he won't come ,you've offered a lot n still he's not, tell him stop playing around be truthful,n stop wasting your time n heartache on someone ..he needs to be honest as to what's going on n not ' oh I'm not coming there by Meyself TF it is that,lame answer. You need more than this excuse.

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    • Me_1226
      7 years ago

      I don't think it has to do with race either. I'm sorry, but based on your facts he seems to be taking advantage of your mom's good intentions and taking you both for granted.

      Not only he should be grateful but also humble. Is very disrespectful of him to prend both trips are to be covered by you or your mom. He's not a child that can't travel alone.

      But most importantly; how long have you known him...!? Do you really know his honest and true intentions...!? Is he worth all this nonsense...!? What does your mom has to say about all this...!?

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  • NeilYounger
    7 years ago

    You say that you are from Pa. The Philadelphia area? Say, Bucks County or thereabouts? Hmm . . .That might explain things. Think about it, will you?

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    • Boobmaster68
      7 years ago

      I've been to Bucks county, Salem, etc.... I prefer my side of the state.

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    • Azaman
      7 years ago

      How does that explain things? I'm not the OP but I'm from Pa myself, so I'm interested to hear your reasoning.

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