Wrong to hook up with their friend for rebound?

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Let's say, you liked someone and you finally hooked up with that person. After that happened, they don't want to have anything to do with you. But their friend has an interest in you and/or needs a rebound just as much as you do. Would it be wrong to hook up with the friend of your past crush/fling?

Yes, if the next hook up is mutual 19
Yes, they don't care anyways 13
No, it's wrong to use someone for rebound 21
No, it's their friend! 7
Depends..(Explain in comments) 5
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Answers don't match the question.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Oh crap, yeah I definitely mixed the yes and no...

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    As long as both of you only want sex, there's no problem. If the friend is interested in more and you're not, that's a problem.

    Make sure if the friend assures you it would just be sex, he/she isn't concealing their true feelings in order to be close to you, thinking eventually you'll feel the same. Otherwise a quick fuck could result in a lot of heartache.

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  • chefs.choice
    12 years ago

    Don't make the same mistake twice. Please.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Be honest with the second person that you're just looking for meaningless sex.

    If they still agree then don't get out of bed until you're both too sore to walk.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Carry on.

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  • supaflyafro
    12 years ago

    depends because if you break up it'll either still be a friendship or no longer talking to each other. depends if both of you are good at getting dates or not

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  • Dizzee
    12 years ago

    No one should be used as a rebound, just like it says in your poll. Even if someone is okay with it, it's one of the worst feelings ever.

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  • derker
    12 years ago

    You're a dumbass. My guess is this guy who wants to rebound with you (because your gay) is into guys with no penises...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Huh?

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      • derker
        12 years ago

        wipe away your tears and read it again. we both know "huh" is all your brain could muster... Now let's have it again ;)

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        • Jerid
          12 years ago

          your a dick

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          • derker
            12 years ago

            Another hero from the anonymity that is the internet, coming down from on high to offer his vilification in the form of "you're a dick".
            Thanks "Jerid". You're a special breed coming from a somewhat limited stock I might add, as indicated by the unusual way your parents decided to spell your name... perhaps to provide the only significant way to establish yourself as unique among low foreheads, something your brain will never have the capacity to do on its own.
            Yep I'm a dick. Thank you for creating this barrier between us.

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            • Jerid
              12 years ago

              Just stop showing that when it is NOT normal to you it means it is creepy and terrible. You are a "psichologist" or wathever you call yourself, don't be sarcastic, if you are so called psicho-doc, just calm down and explain things, not sarcastically mock people. When I say "you are a dick" I say it because I hate when people use sarcasm to show off that they are cool and know lots of stuff... blabla... Why did you mock the story owner that - "huh" was the only thing that her/his brain could handle? "Huh" is the same as "What?". To peole like you I say they are morons, I say you shold stop being a smartass and talk normally. I am not trying to pick a fight, you speak like a Russian. And oh boy, hehe, I know how Russia is =P.

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