Wow, my best mate now hates me.

Fucking wow.

i have a "best friend" from school, and after school we both went to seperate college because, but we still always met up because we lived local.

So basically 1 day he told me that his friend from college, Urinated on a homeless person. I thought this was fucking disgusting.

so anyway 3 months later he introduced me to one of his college friends, and i aksed if he was the one that pissed on the homeless person. He said yes, so i headbutted him, hard, in the mouth. And now my Best friend hates me.....

My best friend has changed, he now hands around with losers that have been kicked out of college, and will be working in MacDonalds... but i still want to be his friend...

WTF shall i do

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Comments ( 10 )
  • bananaface

    LOL, you headbutted him?! Why the hell did you do that?

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  • peterr

    I like friends that suck my cock and swallow my cum. Male and female.

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    • That's why you have no friends

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      • peterr

        That is not true but nice try...

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  • seekingcleanfriendship

    People change as they age which is why most people who truly mature move on from their school mates to friends who are similiar and also more mature.
    I don't believe head butting to be extremely mature or cursing for that matter but being angry at someone for disrespecting a homeless person is very understandable.
    It's time to find new friends who think like you.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Both of you were at fault, his friend for pissing on the homeless guy and you for head butting him... Things with you and your friend have gone sour and it's quite understandably that you want to keep the relationship but it might be the time to end it. Similar situations have happened to me but for many different reasons. The first one, I was friends wither her since either Kindergarten or Pre-K. We considered each other "BFFs" but of course it didn't stay that way. My friend when she was younger displayed some "disturbing tendencies", but of course I was too naive to take much notice except for the times I was bothered by her. It used to be quite frequent that she'd go to church with me and my grandmother and after the service we would have a playdate. On one such occasion, she almost killed me.

    The service was over and me and her where sitting alone in one of the pews. Most of the people had either left or did thing that churchgoers do after church, but my grandmother was talking to a lady near the end of the church. I remember that we just sitting there when suddenly she got this strange look in her and she started chocking me. I couldn't understand why she was doing it and I was scared. That look she had on her face was unearthly. There was nothing but hatred and evil coming out of her. She meant what she was doing. I begged her to stop, but it kept getting tighter and I could barely breathe. Then, something happened almost as if a switch had been turned on and she stopped. She was acting like she had no idea of what had just happened... I think I remember telling her what she did and why, but I think she told me that she didn't do it. O_0

    There were a few more incidents were she chocked me and pinned me down. Once she pinned me against my bedroom door. I don't know what was wrong with me, I could've ended the friendship right then and there but I didn't and as the years progressed it got worse. Once, she came over my house after summer camp. About Halloween the year before her mother had taken a photo of us in costume and she had made a popsicle frame for it and given it to me. That day she went completely bonkers and basically threatened chased us around the house for it while me and my mother tried to hide it since she was out of control. When her mother came, we told her what happened and my friends excuse was that she was only "joking". Some years later, we had a sleepover and she stole my GameBoy SP. I knew which one was mine, but she got that same strange look in her eye and insisted that it was hers. There was a huge fight and of course, her parents believed her and she got my good conditioned SP while I was stuck with her poorly functioning one. Then, as we got older she started to become more abusive and completely disregard me.

    The final straw was when my mother and her's had a falling out because my mother found out from me that her mother had been telling people her personal business. My called me up during that time and flipped out on the phone. I got called all these horrible things and it when on for hours.... A year or so later, we went somewhere together but it wasn't the same. Things were tense and I probably came off as being rude. There have been about three occasions since where I have seen her, but these were awkward and rude.

    The other end of a friendship happened very recently, possibly in October. I had been friends with this girl since summer of '06 where we met at summer camp with some others. Last year, all was well until she found out that I had anorexia and then things wen't down hill. She was upset about it and I admit that I rather enjoyed it and I pushed her a tad too far.... Somehow Lady Gaga got involved in the conversation where in which my friend flew into a rage because I brought up the possibility that LG was a cutter and had a ED. She started going on and on with this bull crap about how I wasn't born anorexic and because I wasn't born that way and couldn't accept myself that this somehow meant that I wasn't a "true" fan of her music. Then, she told me that she was ashamed of me and gave me a dramatic "goodbye" or so I thought... I later found out that she made a post about what happened on her tumblr and then linked it up to her twitter. It was incredibly immature and rude of her to do so. Then, during the ordeal I became extremely paranoid and disillusioned and I thought that she was plotting against me. This proved to be wrong and she ended up telling me how much she loved me. Finally, sometime this year she completely ignored me. She refused to answer my texts and hasn't contacted me since. I'm baffled, but maybe this is a good thing.

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  • ALCOHOLPOISONING

    BOOM headshot

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  • Ilovebigdicks

    This happened to me in fifth grade. My bff that i had all my life tottally changed. She was in sixth grade and she cussed dated and kissed. i still was the same. I had crushes but didnt date them! She never txted me and she always would be with her friends. Ive made better friends then her now.

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    • Justsomejerk

      People have said that I'm one of the biggest dicks they've ever met.

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  • "so i headbutted him"

    I doubt this very much.

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