Would you want sexy photos of your g/f?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, I'm 22, he's turning 24. As part of a birthday gift I would like to give him a few sexy, lingerie photos of myself taken by a female photographer. I thought this would be a good idea because I'm struggling with self confidence and he hates that. He wants me to see what he sees. I got the idea from Klhoe from the Kardashian show, lol!

Side question if you feel like commenting, what would you do with the photos after receiving them?

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    I bet he will love it, any man would.

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  • JustDave
    10 years ago

    How well would you be able to deal with it if someday those pictures found their way to the internet? The internet is filled with sexy pictures of people whose partners promised to never, ever share them with anyone else.

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  • Acerbic
    10 years ago

    Well I'm also a woman, but I actually have done this. Working with a professional photographer is definitely the way to go as it's a lot more tasteful and the entire experience can be excellent for your self-esteem. For that reason alone, I think you should go for it.
    Of course he would love it; he'll have the photos and you'll feel a whole lot sexier, which would be a great thing for both of you.
    I'm sure you've already thought of this, but make sure you either trust him with them or wouldn't care much if he did show them to someone else. It seems like a thing a lot of guys do- they want to show off how beautiful their girlfriend is. If you're not sure about either of those things, you could always have the photos taken and just keep them.
    At the very least, you'd have the experience and the confidence boost it brings.

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    • RainbowDischarge
      10 years ago

      I love this response since you're talking from experience. Thank you!

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    Don't give him any photos you wouldn't want your friends and family seeing. You're still young and not married. Because if you break up...there is always that chance. That said. Lingerie shots don't sound bad though. this does however sound like a fun pretty good idea.

    Also, quit watching the Kardashians. Its mindless drivel.

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    • RainbowDischarge
      10 years ago

      I trust him that wouldn't share with his friends. He gets very mad if anyone at the store looks at my clothed butt for 2 seconds. And yeah, I know. Its a dumb show, but the only show of that kind that I indulge in occasionally

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      • TwoThumbs
        10 years ago

        Yeah...you trust him while you're together. But if/when you guys break up. It's an open field. You don't know if and how you guys would break up. If its bad...expect revenge photos to be posted. Its an epidemic...these types of photos are everywhere on the net.

        Think of what the 10 year older version of you would do.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You can provide him and all his buddies with jerkoff material.

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    • RainbowDischarge
      10 years ago

      Sounds good.

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  • TheProph
    10 years ago

    Are you really asking what guys would do with the pictures once they got them? I think you already know the answer to that...

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    • RainbowDischarge
      10 years ago

      I trust that he would not share. I just don't want to give them to him and he just cast it away to the side to never look at again.

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      • TheProph
        10 years ago

        Not what I meant. I mean more along the times of "private time".

        I had a girl give me nude pictures and I didn't share, but I don't know of any guy who would want nudes of his girlfriend and NOT use them for that.

        Also, this goes without saying, but I hope you're at least 18?

        Believe me, he will likely save those pictures long after you two break up. I'd still have the nudes of my ex if they didn't get lost, and it was over a decade ago that we broke up.

        And I have absolutely no feelings for her emotionally anymore, but I wouldn't mind being able to still see her naked.

        And not to rain on your mans parade, but to be fair, you two are more than likely going to break up one day (unless you're a little older, like 30+) . So just keep that in mind before you do it.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    I have been sent sexy photos from people I have dated before. It did not really do a lot for me. I was always sort of curious as to what the gender looked like though. However it was not really very thrilling. I am a bit odd though so I don't know if you could take my response. Also I would also take (JustDaves) comment into consideration. If you take photos they can end up being seen by others. That is always a risk when making scandalous photos/videos.

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