Would you take her back?

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Ok so my girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago (we are in college). Within a month of us breaking up, she started hanging out with this guy and told me they kissed but thats it. Now that school is over and we're both home from school, she been hanging out with this guy from high school that has wanted her for awhile now. (Since before we were together) I'm most certain they have had sex by now. I still love her so much and it hurts. What really bothers me is if we get back together, ill always think about her having sex with the kid from highschool, and that kid will linger on in yearbook/ facebook photos. So here's the question: If her sex partners are these people in this order: 1st boyfriend, Myself, this kid from highschool. Would you take her back?

Yes, if you both love each other 47
No, find someone better 64
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  • link92
    12 years ago

    Dude i keep on thinking the same thing. It is hard to get it out of your mind, beleive me, yet think of the bigger picture.

    If you guys get back together, and are in it for the long haul. Would that guy matter in 10-15 years? Will it affect the love that you have for her then?

    It will work its self out.

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  • wigsplitz
    12 years ago

    Take a break, clear your mind, hang out with other people, and then decide.

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    Move on.

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  • ThatGuyPeter
    12 years ago

    i would but the thing is she clearly doesn't want to come back to you

    this poll really annoyed me

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    If you can eventually get over it, and she strays away from this guy (respects your feelings on it). Sure then.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Only if you think there is really something in it for both of you. You don't want to end up with her wishing you'd never bothered.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Does she know that you're waiting/judging/monitoring her personal life right now? Maybe you should find a new hobby/interests to distract you from keeping tabs on her new life that doesn't include you anymore. She's moved on, so should you.

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  • Queeny
    12 years ago

    Seems to me like you're more into her than she is into you. My gut tells me you should move on, but do what makes you happy. Wish you the best.

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    No, I already made that mistake, but to spice it up the guy she slept with while we broke up was a good friend. When I got back together with her a part of me always hated her.

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  • cannibus14
    12 years ago

    if she broke up with you once it's really really really unlikely you'll both be happy for a long time if you try to go out again. everyone considers breaking up at one point or another, but to actually be able to go through with it, and then show interest in two other boys says a lot. stay away!

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I think that you have to get over her first; see things clearly.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Any hole's a goal dude

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  • penguin10
    12 years ago

    I don't think the order of her sex life matters to whether or not you should take her back. Take her back only if she genuinely wants to be with you.

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