Would you still date a girl after this?

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Let's say you're a guy and you meet a girl. You seem to hit things off pretty well. This girl ends up having sexual contact and/or full sexual intercourse with you within a short period of time, for example within the first few weeks or dates. Would you still consider having a relationship with this girl, or do you think she is not girlfriend-worthy because she gave you sex quickly?

I ask because I hear many guys say that they want a girl to make it difficult for them, and that if a girl is too eager to have sex, it means she is wanton and probably won't be faithful.

Yes, I would still want her to be my girlfriend 69
No, she isn't girlfriend material 20
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Those guys are hypocrites, unless they can turn the girl down for sex. If you're going to point the proverbial finger and judge her for being easy, please notice that you have three fingers pointing back at yourself; you're just as easy as you think she is!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you. I agree wholeheartedly. These same guys who will judge a girl for sleeping with them spent all of their time trying to get her to do it.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Precisely, and you're very welcome.
        :-)

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  • PapzBSlim
    8 years ago

    She is good. She could either really like you or just want to have sex with you to keep you. Don't think too much into that stuff. There isn't a day or time limit to falling in love, either.

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  • RoyRogers
    8 years ago

    Yeah its kind of stupid to turn down a girl for being sexually interested. Seriously WTF?

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    I think one'd have to be a delusional prick to reject someone for this reason.

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    Yes, definitely. My experience isn't that vast, but I haven't really met any girls that are not like that. I was with one of them for 4 years, so it makes no difference to me.
    Sometimes I felt sex was a little bit rushed, but I'd rather that than having to play weird games and being "led on" or whatever.

    If I liked the girl, I was just happy to be in bed with her. Have never thought less of her, for wanting to have sex with me - I mean, wtf??
    So look, maybe hold off on 'first date sex', if you're concerned. But second or third I'm pretty sure would be the norm.

    *Could be wrong about everything...

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  • Vile
    8 years ago

    This post is subjective and relative as well. Allow me to explain... If you are for example, 6'4 white male 180 pounds with a cut body such as myself you will have sex very quickly with women but doesn't necessarily mean they are unfaithful, to the contrary. It can be generalized by a woman's SMV (Sexual Market Value) relative to yours. Lets say I'm a 10 and banging a 1 or 2 you'd bet your ass she'd be faithful because she can't get better. :)

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  • Docholiday
    8 years ago

    Are you kidding me ? What a dick question. You slept with her as well. Way to protect her feelings and the fact that she let go for you. Maybe she should be on here questioning sleeping with someone that is vain enough to worry about if social media thinks she is a slut.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I'm the girl, genius. This is a hypothetical question.

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  • intooblivion
    8 years ago

    How the hell are you turning that down?

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    If the guy views you as a conquest, your Sexual Market Value will rise slightly by making it a bit difficult.

    Most guys want a partner. In this case, your sexual market value will drop unless there is steady progress with a bit a flirting. Excessive shit tests will put you in his friend zone very quickly.

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  • JackRoberts
    8 years ago

    I would date anyone from 16 to 21

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  • DBSavage
    8 years ago

    What thr hell all of that is shitty advice first of all being a girl i think that shes a hoe bag in a good relationship to noe if he or she is faithfull they'll wait for sex cuz they'll noe that they dont just want them for sex do u get my point

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