Would you rather work very hard, and lots of sex or alt?

Would you rather work hard, be an adult, get lots of sex, possibly with extremely attractive partners...

or would you rather be able to take it easier, just (if you are lucky) have one girlfriend that you connect with very very well, and sex will be whatever it is...impossible to predict, at least for me, and get to actualize your inner individuality (or develop a very unique repoire?)..Caveat: Loyalty has always been important to me, and as long as I'm getting some, and she looks good, I am happy...I would much much rather choose the second choice..whereas as my roommate would much rather choose the first choice...now would you rather have your woman go to another dued, because he is like a Journeyman or some shit...or would you rather the Journeyman just go actualize whatever bizarre sex fantasies or realities that he lol...gets himself into, who knows?? perhaps he will make some extra dough doing what he loves one day and perhaps some of the money will come from my pocket, perhaps not...truth be told I don't know...Stuff that is fresh for some, is old news for others, and I fall under the latter category...but I've been alone the whole time, so even I don't know what happens when I bring a new person into my life...It is not about money either, it is about being in a healthy relationship...I would be willing to leave most of the things in my life behind, for a great relationship...I've never been a smoothie either..

hard work, gorgeous girlfriend, more sex partners, fetishes 17
normal life, healthy relationship with maybe a bit of edge 38
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  • SoccerStud88

    were you high when you posted this poll?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Normal life, healthy relationship with maybe a bit of edge

    Why? Because ... it's been scientifically proven that the more partners a woman has the more likely she'll get HPV which can be cancerous.

    and of course when you're really intimate you can share much more than just an orgasm

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    • joybird

      Saw a tv programme recently which said this virus in carried by 1 in every 14 people and men get serious mouth cancers from oral sex with a female with it.

      AND of course, condoms DO NOT protect you from HIV. Virus is smaller than the molecular spaces in the rubber. On average, a partner contracts HIV after 18 months.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        O yes - they don't teach that one in high school. They do teach it in human sexuality in college though.

        the pores in latex are 50x BIGGER than the HIV virus - it CAN go through the pores.

        We also learned about a couples study. All of the couples involved had one partner with HIV and the other without. They all picked their own sexual plan... full sex, condom-only sex, and no-sex.

        Full sex - the partner picked up HIV in pretty much all of the cases

        Condom-only sex - the partner STILL became HIV positive in many cases

        No-sex - none of the partners became HIV positive. which also proved that you can't just pick it up from 'normal' contact.

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      • I didn't know that about the condom & HIV...I thought that a condom protected against HIV, though I never have looked it up, I will now.

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

          yeah, pores in latex are 50X BIGGER

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  • dappled

    I'm not trying to be offensive but I find your posts really difficult to follow. They sound like an internal conversation rather than a distillation of what you want to ask.

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    • SoccerStud88

      i know dude right...its like hes just typing and typing and like i remember i used to type real fast and not really think about what im typing i just typed it and soemtimes something great came out but most the time nothing good ever came of it. but is it really about what you say so much as how you say it and like the energy you put forth when you exude these words of nothingness? i mean sometimes i dont really care what someoens saying its only about how they use their voice and body language n shit yo dog fo shizzy

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    • yeah, I'm informal stringing ideas together I also use dots....alot.

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      • dappled

        It wasn't a comment on your grammar. As long as something is readable, I'll try to answer it. Your mind just seems to skip around all over the place and you'll start talking about one thing and then go off on all kinds of tangents. My mind does this too so I try to keep it under control when I communicate. Again, not trying to be offensive. Just letting you know why some people are going to give you negative feedback. It's not personal. It's just that they may find it difficult to read, as well. :)

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Are u sure u didn't have LSD to go with ur dollar store energy shot?? Lol

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  • Its funny I have this new roommate who is a guitarist in a reggae band and he has sort of laid back but also arrogant (but he is still pretty nice) personality, we were kicking back watching TV, and I asked him if this was his real personality or if he was just acting... and if he was just acting that he was doing a pretty good job of it and that he might possibly consider going into show biz..heh heh...I can't believe I said that...later he took a dump in the toilet and didn't flush it, so I hope that I didn't rub him the wrong way.

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    • ". . .later he took a dump in the toilet and didn't flush it, so I hope that I didn't rub him the wrong way."

      That's very funny!

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