Would you rather sexless love or loveless sex for life?

You have to choose a life partner.

You either choose someone who you are hopelessly in love with but who will never even attempt to sexually satisfy you in any way at all.

Or someone who will fulfil your every sexual desire (including passionate sex although that's somewhat impossible) but the two of you will never have feelings for each other.

Sex without love (I'm a male) 6
Love without sex (I'm a male) 11
Sex without love (I'm a female) 6
Love without sex (I'm a female) 20
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Freedom_

    I feel like if "they won't even attempt to sexually satisfy" me...they probably don't care much for me, so in this scenario I'll choose the sex.

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  • Arm0se

    I would be entirely fine with an asexual person.

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  • Ellenna

    Love without sex because I can do sex by myself, but not love and anyway love lasts longer than sex in my experience

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    • MCEminem

      do you mean masturbating?

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      • Ellenna

        Of course, how else would I have sex by myself? Big problem is that I like surprises and it's almost impossible to surprise oneself

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        • MCEminem

          be drunk the night before so you forget that you thought of suprising yourself. then the following morning when you're hungover you still won't know that you were gonna surprise yourself. then, get your privates out and fap while you can barely think straight from all that alcohol, you disgusting alcoholic!

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          • Ellenna

            I'm a bit out of practice at getting drunk ... now stoned (eating not smoking) is another matter, but I'm also inclined to go to sleep, which is a surprise when I wake up without having had an orgasm, but not the sort of surprise I'd like ....

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    So either no love or no sex? Since I consider love more important, I'll go with sexless love.

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    • RoseIsabella

      That sounds okay, but only if there's cuddling and the lack of attraction or desire for sex is entirely mutual.
      :-)

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  • chained_rage

    I want my own children someday. So I would never waste my time in something that will end up in not having sex at all.
    Even though I don't particularly care that much for sex right now =/

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  • Melora

    This really depends on the quality of the love. If there is real and deep love than anything you do with that person is satisfying.
    Also there still are toys to take care of occasional urges and those are much safer and cleaner than random people who may be disease ridden.

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  • MCEminem

    too much of a hard question for me to answer sorry!!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Neither, I would have to choose the solitary life.

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