Would you rather be dumped for your body or personality?

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Body can also be genitals. Personality can also be beliefs and interests.

I'm male. Body 12
I'm male. Personality 18
I'm female. Body 10
I'm female. Personality 10
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  • nobody13
    8 years ago

    Body. Those things just rot anyway, and I imagine that it's easier to get over someone who just drops you for reasons that are skin deep.

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  • Anonnet
    8 years ago

    Personality. If she dumps me for that, it would simply bum me out. I could bounce back and find someone who loves my same interests and shares my beliefs. If she dumped me for my body, it would hit me a lot harder. That requires a lot more effort to fix, and leave me pretty self-conscious for a while.

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  • usethedolltoshowuswereTGStouch
    8 years ago

    Your asking if girls want their bodies, dumped?
    Calling FBI.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I'd rather not waste my time, energy and emotions with someone who can't appreciate me.

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    • Thedollcollector8==D
      8 years ago

      You seem like you have been scorned by a man in the past because most of your posts regarding men come off as bitter.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Well, regardless I can't say I like either of the choices. It's probably easier, to be rejected for personality. It's still painful, but I think it's important to realize that being rejected for personality is just a basic incompatibility. Why waste time with someone if ya'll aren't compatible?

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    Personality is more changeable, for the most part, or maybe just more personally enjoyable for me to work on. I would likely see being dumped due to my personality as constructive criticism.

    I would get over a person who dumped me because of my body very quickly, but I have a feeling their judgments would linger and cause a little insecurity, depending on what they specifically didn't like.

    Unfortunately people rarely state what they specifically dislike about either during a break up to save feelings, although sometimes it's not really necessary. Why say, "I see you as more of a friend... with a small dick and giant Buddha belly" when you can just leave out the harsh blows about their physique. I can't really justify withholding criticism about someone's personality though, especially if it's something that will likely repel their future interests as well.

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    • Thedollcollector8==D
      8 years ago

      Have you ever been punched in the face? Dont you have a kid to take care of?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    8 years ago

    Personality, weirdly enough. I could learn from that and do better next time. But being dumped for my body would destroy my confidence, as I'm not going to get any prettier.

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  • MeatHookSodomy
    8 years ago

    I'd say my body because I have a nice one but somewhat of a shitty personality so I rig it that way in my brain

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