Would you rather “soften” or “toughen” up?
A lot of people struggle with how they handle words or situations.
Some people want to “toughen up” and become harder against insults, trauma, fear, or difficult situations.
Maybe this would make them less friendly, or less trusting. But it could also help them stand up to bullies, people who want to take advantage of them, or become more self sufficient.
Others may want to “soften up” and become more vulnerable, express emotions better, and build stronger relationships with others.
“Softening up” could help someone become less aggressive, let go of anger, work through their issues and accept help easier.
Are you trying to make either of these changes? Why?
| Soften up | 7 | |
| Toughen up | 17 | |
| Stay the same | 3 |