Would you marry someone who had kids?
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No | 52 |
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Yes | 31 | |
No | 52 |
It wouldn't put me off a relationship necessarily...it would depend. I met a great guy once, and he had three kids. After thinking it over, I decided that that was too much for me - particularly as I want kids of my own - so we didn't pursue things.
Most likely no, it's too much baggage for me. I don't want the responsibility of children that aren't my own and I don't want to marry a man who will always have a connection to his ex.
Only if I truly loved them and ideally, if their kids were older and mature. I don't think I could handle little kids.
If I really loved them, I think when you have kids if it's the first for both of you it's more special rather than your spouse having been through it before. Also a person who has kids has too much baggage baby mamma drama and what not, maybe the kid(s) won't like you..whole bunch of problems, I'd really really really have to be unconditionally and irrevocably in love with this person.
If I loved him and he was mature in his dealings with his ex as well as a responsible father and was willing to give me a child or two without the dynamic of his or our life falling apart, yes.
Depends, but there was a girl I really liked that has a two year old, but there is also 2 hour driving distance and a few other problem, but kids aren't a deal breaker.
No because i don't want marrage. I am however trying to get into a relationship with someone who has two children