Would you marry me if...

If I ever wanted to get married (which I don't) or have children (whom I also do not want to have), then may.. No. Still, no.

Since you are a male and I am a male, you would not marry me because we cannot have children together and I would not marry you because I am heterosexual / straight.

If you were a woman, my answer would be NO, NO, NO, I would never marry you under the conditions described. I would not like to be reduced to the child-producing-and-child-rearing-factory.

But it is true that getting married solely for "love / romantic" reasons does not guarantee a happy marriage. However, getting married without love and only for child-rearing does not guarantee a happy marriage either.

I'm just not the baby machine type. I don't desire kids... which is probably good. There are enough baby popping women in the world to ensure that we'll continue to infest the earth like maggots.

However, if I were interested in raising a family, I would surely be intrigued by the idea.

sound like a deal to me but if you're clean and well myn why would i go elsewhere for sex when i have you? Unles i hate you or am sick i never reject my mate even if mad. Just bc im mad doesnt mean i dont want you... Wow i got off topic >_<

There are many different forms of love. For me to get married to someone I need many things. I have to have some sort of love, being friendly, romantic or passionate. And I have to get along with him as a best friend. Out differences can't be enough that we make eachother miserable. If his flaws are something I feel incompatible with, then no marriage. Marriage is a big deal, it's supposed to be forever. If it doesn't feel perfect, then it should stay as boyfriend girlfriend

What you have described is a fairly tried and true view of marriage that blends what it takes to sustain it: romantic love, desire for children/family, economic security, long term companionship and friendship, commitment, peaceful co-habitation. All of these may not be present or possible, or may wax and wane, but to think any one of these dimensions alone is enough is folly. I especially agree that romantic love alone is not enough - but it is one of the more critical ingredients.

Lol there wont be a baby duh!

I think love is overrated. Its either u love someone more or someone loves u more. Either u take someone for granted or ur taken orr granted. I was married coz of love but that ended in divorce. Sucks and hurts at the same time.
If my current relationship sinks again ill take ur offer our lawyers can do the talking, u have to be tested and hopefully you are good looking coz i do not want an ugly child if not offer is off the table lol.

I don't want kids. And I definitely don't want to get married to someone I don't have feelings for.

Sounds like what I've wanted my whole life

I not cut out for the whole "love" thing, so yeah, probably. People can learn to love one another.

If we were friends and I could see us always being friends, then yes, I'd certainly consider it as an option.

A marriage based on love and mutual respect is ideal. I think many people forget that love extends far beyond romantic love. Your arrangement sounds nice. But you can't ignore the desire to have sex. You said you could see other people, but are you truly okay with that? Will sex be allowed outside the marriage if the marriage doesn't fulfill that need?