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| Yes. (Add a comment explaining why) | 133 | |
| Yes, if I loved them I would forgive them. | 165 | |
| Yes, I don't really care about my virginity. | 127 | |
| No. (Add a comment explaining why.) | 50 | |
| No. That is unforgiveable. | 71 | |
| No, I don't plan on ever losing my virginity. | 9 | |
| Maybe. If they are a widow(er), got raped, were in love... It depends. | 76 | |
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Just because someone your with isn't a "pure one" doesn't make them evil. <laughs to self> I think if yew care about someone the past is the past.
I was 16 when I lost mine and back then I had the mentality "I want to fall in love with someone who is also a virgin, and have us give it to each other." I think that at 16 its pretty reasonable to hope that the other person is a virgin too. But if you're in your 20's or older and still a virgin, you have to accept that people have their own lives, a life before you- their life did not start when you walked into it. If being with a virgin is that important to you then you should hold off and meet someone who shares your values on waiting until marriage.
I would never lose my virginity to a man who was a virgin if I legitimately wanted to enjoy sex.
Listen honey: SEX IS NOT LOVE.
Sure, you can love someone you're having sex with. But that doesn't mean that if someone had sex with someone else, in the past, they don't love you... I mean I'm sorry but your logic is so damn flawed that I can't even argue with it.
Wow! Many people are disagreeing with you on this. But not me. Well, sorta. I WOULD lose my virginity to a non-virgin, yes. But it would be hella swell if they were virgin, 'cause I'm an extremely jealous person.
I would lose my virginity to someone I loved and who loved me. Maybe a little experience wouldn't be so bad.
You can't expect for someone to stay pure if they think they honestly love someone. It's not like they get a memo on the computer saying, 'Oh, you're going to break up with this girl and meet this new one that is a virgin and wants you to lose your virginty with her.' Things don't happen like that; you can't expect everyone to wait when they haven't even met you.
Bit late for me. But I did this anyway, because I didn't give a flying fuck about my virginity :D Good sex is fun, and I'm not religious.
There is nothing wrong with giving yourself to the one you love even if they aren't a virgin. I gave my virginity to the love of my life and he wasn't a virgin. We didn't end up together but there are no regrets. I was in love. Nothing is guaranteed in life. Not being a virgin is not a bad thing. We live and learn.
As a virgin, I would rather lose my virginity to THE ONE. Like soul mate. But honestly, I would thinks it's a little better for him to have more experience to be able to guide me through it. I don't mean manwhore by any means, but a little experience would be nice.
I lost mine to some drunk slut at a party when I was a freshman in college. I didn't even know her last name, and I never saw her again. I was happy to lose it.
Not sure. Sometimes I think it would be better to do it with someone who has more experience and knows what they're doing. Then I think that it would be so much more nicer with someone who is in the same position as myself. But sadly, I don't know any guys that are still virgins, and most of the guys who ask me out have kinda been around. It sucks because I also wonder if they're carrying something.
that other person would know more about what they are doing that a virgin so that would be a good thing . a person needs to learn and be comfortable with having sex so that when that special person does come along they will know and can act on that feeling . knowing it is not just about sex since they are not still a virgin and now know better what they want in a person.
usually this issue becomes a question because of man. man can never lose their virginity because they are never virgin. they are just "physically virgin" sorry man i didnt mean to offend you.
because once a woman had naked sex, most probably will get pregnant. they will be left with the consequences, they cant escape.
while for man, *sigh they can have sex as many times as they want. because they are not left with consequences. they can escape.
BE GRATEFUL THAT YOU'RE MAN INSTEAD OF WOMAN. you can take theirs away, they cant take yours away.
it is tough being an woman. so guys, the best thing you can do to be a man is to be grateful towards woman. we really appreciate it. its not like we want to be a woman.
Personally i would rather lose my virginity to someone who wasn't one, mostly because they would be more experienced and I would get the full effect
i usually assume a guy has had sex before me, in this day and age your lucky if you can find ANYONE to love...to have such high standards will leave you lonely for a quite a while, possibly forever.
the guy i love lost his virginity to a prostitute...i dont nessecarily agree with it but he was a dumb kid, people make mistakes sometimes too
i did loose mine to a girl who wasn't... i didn't regret that she wasn't... i regretted that it was with her...
my boyfriend had fucked b4 he disvirgin me d way he fuck me was to sweet for a beginer now he fuck me everyday even though other men are fucking me now deeply. better to be disvirgin by a guy with good experience.
You would have sex with someone if they were raped, but not if it was consensual, that's a bit disturbing.
No not fair...its ment for us too to share thats all. Whats mines is mines i wont compromise.
It has to be with someone I trust, someone that won't make me feel like shit the following morning, someone who'll give me a cuddle and told me that "last night was great," although that'll be impossible since I'm gawdy.
But tbh, he doesn't have to be a virgin, in fact, it'll be better if he isn't one so that he knows what to expect.
Guide me through the painful times, lol.
To be honest its not really a question that ever came up, from either of us. I did lose my virginity to someone who was not a virgin, he never asked, and I never felt the need to tell him.
Huh, I will not loose, cause I already lost it.
And yeah, the partner wasn't a virgin..
I think is better to do with someone that have experience, you know? hahaha'
I did lose my virginity to a girl who had already lost hers. Her ex had taken advantage of her one night so it wasn't really her fault and we both felt so strongly for each other that I wanted her to be my first.
I understand that picking the right person to be your first is important, but I'm glad it was with someone I like and who knew what she was doing rather than someone I picked purely because they were in the same boat.
You are so narrow-minded it's sad. What if the person was raped, does that mean that they can't have sex with a virgin even if that's the only person they've ever loved?
I lost mine to someone who wasn't a virgin. We loved each other, or at least thought we did, so it wasn't a big deal that she wasn't a virgin. In fact all my sexual partners have been more experienced than me. I've learned a lot.
I was forced to.
I am a male and I wasn't exactly Robbie Williams.
Or any other young man with a mischief on his mind.
i would lose it to sum1 i could trust a lot like a very good friend i would always be friends with or a girl i care a lot about