Would you kill yourself if you got a seriousl incurable disease?

e.g the doctor diagnoses you with HIV. would you go home & just end it or think about it? it could be cancer, ect.

if it was me i'd probably have to kill myself within a day of being told i have a serious incurable disease. after that i'd have convinced myself a load of reasons why i shouldn't and would have needed to do it off impulse anyway.

yes 45
i'd think about it but not sure 33
no 66
depends on circumstances (comment) 33
depends on the disease (comment) 36
yes (before i changed my mind) 9
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Comments ( 58 )
  • flutterhigh

    It's kind of like you're saying, "you can't fire me - I QUIT!"

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  • I'd spend every minute drunk off my ass, obviously never even showing up for work again. No call, no 2 weeks, just not showing up again.

    And if I was healthy enough still I would book some cool vacations like a safari in Africa or crocodile hunting in Australia. Then, if it was cancer, or some other disease where I then started wasting away and looked like a walking corpse, I would eat a bullet.

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    • Miss.Curious

      I love your response! Totally agree

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  • myownopinions

    Unless, it was a 100% fatal disease that caused me great pain and suffering, I wouldn't end my life.

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  • Ibelievethis

    I think I probably would, especially if I was infirm and had no quality of life. I'd rather be dead than have to depend on someone else and be a burden. I also beieve in euthenasia if a peson wants to die because they have no quality of life then their wishes should be respected. Let's face it if an animal gets sick we say it's cruel to keep them alive so why is it different for people. xxx

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    • Eternal_Wisdom

      *like*

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  • AssBurgers

    Losing my eyesight or becoming paralyzed would be the deal breakers. Something like cancer or HIV though, you're going to die anyway so you might aswell just ride it out.

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  • someonenotkelly

    Never going to give up on life

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    • flutterhigh

      Never gonna let life down.

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      • flutterhigh

        Never gonna run around and desert life.

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        • Eternal_Wisdom

          never gonna give you up remix? LOL

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  • joybird

    I think you'd be surprised how hard people people fight to stay alive. Consider chemotherapy for cancer, it makes people terribly sick and often their hair falls out - but still they keep having the treatment. Few of us have to die in pain anymore, with the help of pain relieving drugs.

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  • wigsplitz

    Fuck no!! I'd kill other people.

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  • chubbawubba69

    Not right away for sure. People can live long and relatively healthy lives with HIV these days. Even if I had incurable cancer I wouldn't kill myself right away. I'd probably continue living and trying to enjoy life until it got to the point where it was no longer worth living. Then I would try to end it.

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  • hairyfairy

    I`d definately kill myself if I had alzheimers, or terminal cancer, because I couldn`t take the suffering & indignity that these diseases inflict.

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  • likeaglove

    I'd do everything and anything I ever fucking wanted on my last week

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  • dfsq

    There might be a cure for hiv soon, I read in the news not long ago. So nope

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  • Miss.Curious

    I would want to kill myself but it's said that I will go to hell if I commit suicide.. so instead I'd live a risky life full of rock climbing, sky diving, white water rafting without a helmet haha and if that didn't work out then I'd pray to god that I got hit by a bus or something.

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  • iEatZombies_

    The truth is, nobody knows full well what they're capable of until confronted with similar situations.
    Nothing goes the way we imagine unless we he have an experience to look back on.

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  • squirrelgirl

    My brother always brings up this situation and says that he would. I wouldn't, because I'd want to use the time I have left to do the things that matter the most to me.

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  • CheyChey

    If i had an incurable disease & i was alone in this world i would probably kill myself, but i'm not alone i could never do that to my mother & brother & to really think of it suicide is for cowards it's such a selfish decision too why not fight until the end coz either way you're gonna die, A good way to go would be surrounded by the people who love you not your mother findin your lifeless body in the bathroom or wherever whicheve way you do the deed

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    I think I'd rather try to do as many "important" things as possible in the time I have left. Unless of course the disease doesen't allow me to do anything (including talking). But then I couldn't kill myself anyway.

    You can always die, wheter you're sick or not. And you will die eventually.

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  • Avant-Garde

    The French philosopher, Gilles Deleuze, apparently had pulmonary aliment and he ended up committing suicide by jumping out of his apartment window. I'm yet to read his works, but that is a pretty brave way to go out. I'd probably kill myself, but I'd have to give up my fears in order to do it.

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  • EndlessEcstasy

    I'd just enjoy the remainder of my life. The worst part would be living past the day you were supposed to die. It would just be like "any minute now..." and I'd be in a constant state of depression/paranoia. Before that happens though I'd enjoy life the best I could and get laid a lot... unless it was HIV :(

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    • Eternal_Wisdom

      it's scary but there's some people who don't let a thing like HIV get in the way of their rampant sex life..some keep the same mentality which was responsible for them getting the curse in the first place.

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  • A bunch of other people on my blacklist first.....then myself.

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    • anti-hero

      Anyone famous?

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      • lol no one famous, im not trolling either. With everyone that really hurts me (and i mean really, not just makes me mad or upsets me) i put their names on a scrap of paper in my drawer, there are only a couple. So that one day when i get older i can look them up and do something to hurt them in a similar way. I don't mean i'd kill them, but they wont be happy. I just call it the blackbook for a laugh.

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        • Eternal_Wisdom

          same. payback before you checkout =)

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        • anti-hero

          Remind me to stay on your good side. :)

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  • thinkingaboutit

    honestly, HIV is not the worst disease you can have.

    I choose no. People with "serious incurable diseases" probably appreciate life the most.

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    • Eternal_Wisdom

      i know it's not, it was just an example..what if you had a painful cronic disease? would you still embrace and appreciate life?

      i put the "depends on the disease" option there for a good reason..

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      • thinkingaboutit

        Yeah, I get it. What I meant was that you can have any disease and there is still one worst out there. People may say that they'll kill themselves if they "ever get [fill-in-blank] disease", but I truly believe that no matter the illness, if it's not fatal in itself, most people adapt and learn to cope extremely well.

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  • bighead88

    Hell Naw I wouldn't kill myself can't no disease stop me from doing Wateva God got planned for me .Shyt u cud get that Shyt today then in a few years they might release the cure ....have hope for yourself

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  • sograceful

    Well no, that's absolutely silly!

    We're all gonna die anyways. Who knows, we could die at any time, be it tomorrow, next week, next month, or years.

    It's gonna come to an end somehow.

    So why does it matter if you find out you'll die soon? Life's short anyways.

    Live it up while you have it so you can look back and be thankful for all the memories you had the privilege to experience.

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  • Couman

    As soon as I found out? Definitely not. I would definitely consider it when the disease progressed to the point where I could no longer enjoy life, and I might go as far as making preperations for when that time came. But until then, a terminal illness sounds like a great excuse to live for the moment. It's possible that living for the moment might involve some dangerous, borderline "suicidal" things. But to actually intentionally kill myself while I still have some enjoyable time left doesn't make sense to me.

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  • Immune2BS&way2Illuminated

    It's definitely something to ponder. I don't like the prospect of dying in abject pain later on...

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  • RinTin

    I thought about if I became blind I'd kill myself, but actually thinking about it I probably wouldn't. I would find a way to make it work...though I hate relying on people. I would get a Great Dane and ride it around. Someone would teach it how to get to certain places by command so I'd just tell it where to go and it'd take me...and I'd have someone teach it what my things look like (credit cards etc.) so I can just tell it what to get me! hahaha. I'd probably get another one trained to follow and protect me as a body guard incase anyone tried to steal my shit or trip me.

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  • Shackleford96

    I might think about it, but as for actually doing it, I don't know. I've never been the suicidal type, and I just can't say for sure if I'd actually be able to go through with it or not...

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    • anti-hero

      If your AIDS gets too bad, I will put you down so you don't suffer too much. I will make it quick with minimal pain.

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      • Shackleford96

        You would do that, for me?

        How nice :)

        Do I have the option to shoot you as well if the situation was reversed? (It's only fair!)

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        • anti-hero

          Oh yes, please do!

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  • Jinx

    I'd off myself only when my organs were being attacked from the disease. I want to donate my organs before they're unusable.

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  • zchristian

    If it is a disease where im going to suffer a lot probadly if its something where i nearly cant feel it or maybe not feel it at all then mehh...

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  • bumblecreek

    if it was HIV i probably would. because if you have it, you're going to die anyway. i think it would be better to die before the disease itself kills you, because from what i've heard, it's pretty horrible.

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    • Eternal_Wisdom

      you can live up to 25 years with HIV with this new cocktail of medicine..if you live a "healthy" lifestyle anyway..
      the last few years of your life would be unimaginable i think though.

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  • SLAYERoftheWICKED

    God can take me when he wants.

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    • anti-hero

      What if God doesn't want you? haha :)

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      • SLAYERoftheWICKED

        fuck you

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        • anti-hero

          Guessing you are too stupid to understand a joke? Even when someone says haha and puts a :) ... Wow, you are fucking stupid. Cry baby bitch.

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    • Immune2BS&way2Illuminated

      I will take you when I want...

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      • SLAYERoftheWICKED

        fuuuuuuuck yooooou

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        • Immune2BS&way2Illuminated

          No thanks, rather would get laid...

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    • Eternal_Wisdom

      don't forget about satan. he takes lives too.

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