Would you get involved with an insecure person?

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I have been talking to a guy and think we really like each other... However, I feel that he is very insecure and we haven't even met in real life yet... It's not like we are dating...
When chatting via texts... I'd I'm not responding immediately, he straight away asks me what I'm doing... Because I'm not "chatting much"

What's up with that?

Is this just a bad sign of things to come?

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Based on 29 votes (14 yes)
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  • oysterbay
    9 years ago

    He hasnt got time to sit around for 20 minutes waiting for a reply. I think it's good to be snappy.

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    Depends, on one side maybe he just is curious cause he doesnt want to be distracting you if your busy or driving or something. On the other he maybe a crazy, possesive person. Depends on the context. Tone is hard to convy thru text messages

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Absolutely not. I think it's one of the worst traits someone can have in a relationship.

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  • JonCrowley
    9 years ago

    Insecure people will (may) get really jealous if you talk to other guys or spend time with others. They are annoying, always needing attention to confirm your relationship. They are actually usually less loyal than you'd think. If they can make 2 friends by stabbing you in the back, they probably will. These are as much stereotypes as from personal experience. If you like him, don't let 1 trait stop you from spending time together. He could be great, but if his insecurity is all I know about him he probably isn't.

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  • IamFacetious
    7 years ago

    insecure women are the best.. you can fuck them however you want and pass them around to your buds.

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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    signs of a controlling dude.. and so early on?!? this is the type of guy that could end up murdering his wife and stuffing her body in a duffel back in the mississippi river or something.

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  • iEatZombies_
    9 years ago

    I happen to be with an insecure person. I don't feel bothered by it. He treats me well and he's quite gentle and compassionate. It's easy to look past his more than understandable insecurities. He's gotten a lot better about it anyway.
    I'm also an insecure person. It isn't some kind of disease that kills the possibility of a happy relationship. You should only not be with an insecure person when they allow their insecurities to infringe on your well-being. Otherwise it's a matter of personality and compatibility.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    Probably not.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Very bad personal qualities are correlated to insecurity. No thanks.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Yandere mode activated.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    Nope. Whiny, clingy, insecure people are just annoying.

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    • kingofcarrotflowers
      9 years ago

      The thing that I don't get is this.

      Surely being insecure in a relationship would lead to over-analyzing it definitely did with my ex so how come they don't realise that harassing you if you miss the phone one time is the very thing pushing you away

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      • dom180
        9 years ago

        I think that's what a normal, healthy thinker would do, but an insecure over-analyst would go further. They might think that their partner was only acting pushed away to test their faith, or that if they just keep pushing they'll eventually get through and it'll all be okay.

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        9 years ago

        Dom180 pretty much hit it right on the head with his answer.

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        • kingofcarrotflowers
          9 years ago

          Definitely

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