Would you ever give your partner consent to touch you in your sleep?

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Say your partner has a sleeping fetish? Like they want to touch or undress you while you're asleep. Would you, or is it possible to, give consent to that?
I feel like it's not possible to have that be a mutual thing. Like during sex, if I say I want to at the beginning then get uncomfortable midway through I could tell my partner to stop. But if I'm asleep, I can't do that.
My boyfriend has a whole, what I call and what he hates to call, "predator fetish". I'm very prudish, and I may just be over reacting, but I don't think sexual activity while one of the people is unaware can ever be consensual? Even if I say "Okay I give you full permission" I still feel like it's just wrong.

Yes, if I tell them they can. 9
I might be open to it. 2
No, never. 0
No, it's impossible to consent to that. 2
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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    I don't understand how it wouldn't wake you up.

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  • Master.debater
    7 years ago

    I did it once. My friend was sleeping but we had talked before and given me permission. It was SO hot!!!

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  • sleeves
    7 years ago

    The thought of waking up to some oral sounds fun. Though a morning that starts off with a bad touch seems quite awful. Maybe just agree to it until it goes wrong?

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  • Cookiecutter
    7 years ago

    If you give them consent then its not a problem and if you wanted them to stop then you would wake up and tell them that. Its not like you sleep through the entire thing when something is wrong or our uncomfortable you say something even when your sleeping

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  • matches
    7 years ago

    I love being touched while sleeping

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