Would you ever be in a relationship that lacked direct sex?

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When I say direct sex I mean no penetration but other acts which create sexual arousal. (Note must be between consenting adult humans age 18 and over)

Yes 92
No 79
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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago

    Yes. I would prefer a relationship that had no sex.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I dont see the problem with that atleast your getting something, but no sex at all sounds depressing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Sex doesn't interest me much in all honesty, but I seem to have a minority opinion on that. I don't hate it, I just can take it or leave it and don't think about it very much. I could explore a relationship like this.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    tongues!

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago

    I did that for the first year of my current relationship. It worked out, we're still together- and doing well in that department.

    People should stop underestimating what they're capable of.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I've never understood how a relationship without sex would be any different than any other friendship.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Its not friend ship. You can still do things which get aroused but no penetration, such as S&M, BJ, Handy, oral and that sort of thing. You can get arousal without penetration. Not every friend is going to agree to give you a hand job. I can guarantee you.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Ok. When I think of sex, I include all those things as types of sexual contact.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Well no penetration. Its a relationship where you cant have penetration.

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    • lolol555
      10 years ago

      If that's the case then a FWB would just = a relationship

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  • familyguy63
    10 years ago

    yeah,they are called friends!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      No not all friends are going to agree to perform sexual acts with you.

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  • Gspyder
    10 years ago

    From my experience, a relationship either has to be sexual or not. Trying to stay in some mid ground is torture and leads to conflict when boundaries are pushed.

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  • LizardSkin
    10 years ago

    No I wouldn't I'm quite fond of pounding the vagina.

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    Seems like that would piss me off even more than I already am...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Why would that piss you off?

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      • Tommythecat.
        10 years ago

        Because sexual frustration pisses people off.

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        • Shackleford96
          10 years ago

          Truth!

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            10 years ago

            So you cant get off on anything besides penetration than?

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          • green_boogers
            10 years ago

            If you live in America, get a rifle and blast targets. The destruction is orgasmically pleasurable. Sexual insecurities simply melt away.

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    It would feel a little incomplete, but could be pretty fucking fun.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Probably not, but I suppose it depends on exactly why there is no actual sex

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I have just a question or two. Why are you so prejudiced against non humans in your post? Why aren't we aliens allowed an opinion? You are such a mean person. I want to contribute but, "consenting adult humans" kinda leaves me and my girl out.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I put this so I didn't get a bunch of pedos and bestiality people flooding up this post. Why I was that specific. I guess you could maybe have sex with a martian from another planet but that isn't realistic.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I don't know that I would want that to be a permanent situation but, I'm in no rush to have sex when I start dating someone. I don't think I could be in the type of relationship you've described past a year. As far as the possibility of marriage would be concerned it would most likely be a deal breaker for me.

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