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| I've already did it, and everything it's ok. I do not miss them at all | 3 | |
| I would lie to my bf/gf and I would continue seeing my friends | 4 | |
| I've already did it, and I feel heavy regrets about it | 3 | |
| Never ever! My friends were first than him/her | 36 | |
| Probably... | 3 | |
| Of course! I love too much my bf/gf, so I would dump them inmediately! | 2 |
Depends on why she didn't like the friend and if it was the friend's fault.
I would never be with someone who told me who I can and can't hang out with.
If he "just didn't like her", then no. If there was a legitimate reason, then probably.
Well, I do have a friend, that my girlfriend can't stand. She hates the guy, so we don't meet up when my girlfriend is around, cause things escalate into an argument that usually gives me a headache. So, I meet up with the guy when I'm out with my other mates. When my girlfriend isn't with me. He's a good guy. Guess personalities clash with each other....
Most definitely not, its not even a contest if said friend did nothing wrong. I'm going to need some good reasons if my partner didn't like my friend, otherwise it seems quite controlling.
Only if the friend was treating the person I was dating like crap. Than I would defiantly have to dump this friend.
Not really, would be just because she didn't like him/her. Nobody's fault
If they dislike them for a reason like this friend is constantly mean to them I would. I cant date a person and be friends with people who are going to treat each other like crap. So unless they got along I would not do it. If they simply despised but tolerated each other I would be fine. Though really I probobly wouldnt date someone my freind hated anyways. This goes both ways though. I would dump whoever was being a jerk.
I'm not entirely sure. It depends on what my hypothetical friend did, how severe it was/is, and what the relationship between my friend and my hypothetical partner is like.
I agree with "Guy Code" on this one. Your friends have been there for you before and walked by your side to this point, so now your significant other comes in and thinks they can decided who are and aren't your friends. I've lost seemingly good friends because they started dating a girl who didn't like us (his old friends). Well, turn your back on us for them, when they dump you, don't try to come over and play world of warcraft with us anymore. Jerk. Lol
My sister hates the person that I like, but sistership (if that's something) never ends!
Been there. My ex wanted me to quit seeing ALL my friends. He wanted me to cease contact entirely.
I was serious about my relationship, so I even tried it. Did not last long, I could not avoid it because I need my friends and social contact. I ended up seeing my friends covertly, which only made things worse.
In the end I left the boyfriend, moved out and started my single life.
So glad I did. That was two years ago and I never miss him. I see now all the other ways he was controlling. He was a terrible influence on my life. I am amazed at how blind I was when I was living that way.
I truly hope he finds happiness with somebody else, but he might have to change a lot first or maybe find somebody who wants that type of life. It's possible.
Friendship and relationships shouldn't interfere with each other. They're in two different entities. It's just stupid.