Would you date someone who's bi-curious? (read full)

As a gay/straight person, would you ever consider dating someone who was bi-curious? Like, say a gay person dating a bi-curious straight person or vice-versa? And if you would, would it just be a brief, casual relationship, or would you even consider having a serious relationship with them?

Yes, but only for a casual relationship 26
Yes, even for a serious relationship 43
No, because they would never truly love me/become attracted to me 9
No, because I wouldn't want to date a bi-curious person period 23
Other 7
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  • I don't understand people who would like a bi/bicurious person just for the fact that they MIGHT be more open minded sexually. This is not the case. They're just sexually confused/don't know what they like. How is that a good thing? As far as i'm concerned, i wouldn't date or have a relationship with a bi-curious person. The most i would go for is a one night stand and that's it. No commitment, so regrets, no feelings. I would feel insecure to be with someone who doesn't know exactly what they want,because these people usually tend to go around and experiment, explore their sexuality with multiple partners of multiple genders. And that means they can't commit to one person and it eventually leads to cheating. Who the hell needs all that drama?

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    • RoseIsabella

      I think your comment is spot on!

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm very gay friendly but I still wouldn't date a bisexual or bi-curious man because I know what I like and I want someone who's sure of himself. Besides I'm not into sharing! And I know plenty of gay people who feel the same way.

    There's nothing wrong with one guarding one's heart!

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  • JBN

    They may be curious, but if they haven't done anything about it for years, then it probably isn't that serious.

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  • peterr

    I love horny people so I wouldn't care.

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  • GreyWulfen

    Wtf is a "casual" relationship? It's either a serious relationship or nothing at all. Casual relationships are for jerks and dumbasses.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I think if we were all totally honest, we are all bi-curious, if we have a normal sex drive. It may not be to the point of acting on it, but I can't imagine a healthy human who hasn't wondered what at least the sex would be like, not a relationship; just sex. I don't think it has anythings at all to do with attraction or proclivity, just curiosity about something one is aware exists and might be fun. Both sexes wonder what it would be like to be the other.
    I don't understand why curious means confused, latent or attraction to so many here on IIN.

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  • Sog

    It would bother me if my partner was interested in or looking for something that I could not offer.

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  • something_weird

    Dating a bi person might mean having to fend off both genders rather than one. But I'd go for it. Just start slow and see where it goes. Orientation isn't going to make the individual more likely to cheat, I think.

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  • lolol555

    I still don't get this ridiculous thing about bisexuals. Bi-curious is a different issue but even so if it's a serious relationship then I doubt they're going to forsake the feelings of someone they've been with for a long time for a bit of fun.

    Bisexual just means the person is attracted to both genders. I don't understand how this immediately implies they're going to cheat on someone? What, is it because people think they'll fuck everyone in sight? With that logic, you'd better keep your straight bf/gf away from anyone of the opposite sex as them, lest they cheat!

    And to add to that, just because you're straight doesn't mean you're attracted to everyone of the opposite sex. It just means it's only a select few within that sex you can be attracted to.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Yes, yes, yes. Think fmf 3-some. xD

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  • dom180

    I don't see why it would bother anyone.

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  • Anime7

    I mean in my experience they're usually more blunt than regular girls, which is great. Plus I'd feel like we'd be much more in tune with how we feel, sexually and what not. So ultimately I'd imagine that it'd be a pleasant experience, although I could easily see myself getting jealous just cause I would expect her to be more promiscuous. But since we're in a relationship I imagine that I wouldn't have to worry about that.

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  • DannyKanes

    Of course I'd date a bi-curious girl. Why would it matter? :)

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  • anti-hero

    I would/have dated bi/bi-curious girls before. I don't mind at all.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Yes. That would be hot, especially if they look like Gerard Way and his guy crush was his twin.

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