Would you date someone like me?

I'll make a brief description about myself.

Height: 5'2" (1m57cm)

Weight: 120,78 lb (54,9 kg)

Gender: Female

Appearance: Caucasian; dark brown eyes (dark circles around them for the lack of sleep); wavy mid length hair; round face; skin problems (self harm, located in the shoulders); a mix of chubby and thin body (some parts are skinnier than others because of the weight loss from a few years before).

Personality: Shy; always quiet; serious; avoids long staring; freaks out when having physical contact (hugs or kisses). Lovely and calm with beloved ones; rude and angry, sometimes just being a jerk with the ones I hate.

I want to see the general preference of people. For now, I'm not interested in dating, but still I'm curious about what is needed to be loved by someone, if it's appearance or personality.
If you don't like the actual description, write about the one you think it's perfect.

Yes, and I would be the best man (woman) you ever met. 25
Yes, I'll stay with you, but not for too long. 8
No, I don't think you're attractive enough. 8
No, I find you disgusting. 3
Kill yourself. 8
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Comments ( 23 )
  • richardgerecameinmyass

    Littlegirlbrutallyraped is a faggot.

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  • Tealights

    You sound adorable. However, you really don't need to worry if people find you attractive or not. Just keep up with good hygiene and stay a healthy weight (it doesn't have to be BMI, but a weight that's comfortable for you and doesn't put your health at risk).

    As for personality, don't think too much on it, because it's something you are unable to change and you shouldn't have to.

    When it comes to dating, it only works if you go about it in a smart way. Know your Relationship Red Flags so you can avoid abusers (they're dangerous). Have self-respect, and don't change yourself for anyone (unless it's harmful to your partner or yourself). Unless you have a child you're taking care of, never, ever sacrifice your goals; I know I sound like an asshole, but no man or woman is worth giving up your dreams for, and you shouldn't even be put in a situation where you have to choose.

    Lastly, love takes time to grow the more you learn about the person you're dating. People may go, "When I saw her, I KNEW!!!" However, 90% of people aren't like that, but really want to be; so watch out for people who say they loved you at first sight, because without knowing you, how could they?

    Basically, don't worry about all this nonsense in this topic, just be yourself and love who you are. When you're ready to date, just date smart and don't settle.

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    • Thanks for the advice!
      And besides, you don't sound like an asshole, I know that I shouldn't abandon my dreams. Besides, they're important for me.
      I said that I'm not interested in dating by now, but the thing is, in the past I saw many girls (the slut type) dating with many boys at the same time, and it seemed like all the boys where only interested on them. I wanted to understand that because even when older, I kept seeing this happening.This made me question about what is needed to be loved...

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  • sandnigga

    Your a girl, you can most likely get a date. lol

    Looks dont matter. Morales and Personality matter.

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    • jethro

      Who is Morales?

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      • Lol

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    it's hard to say about dating with that but i would say yes to meeting to see if it would go anywhere apart from the part about your reaction to physical contact, sure it isn't EVERYTHING but physical contact is a huge part in a relationship from sex to cuddling up on the sofa

    but

    id be undateable right now and am not allowing myself to because im going through shit right now from anxiety to body issues, and i'm not bringing that shit into a relationship

    i'm not sure i have a type, i guess i like short women, and i love red hair but apart from that i don't know physically, friends always say i go for " cute " looks over " hot " but i don"t get that

    personality is more important to me than looks i like shy women and funny and kind but those are two traits in general we look for in any human being, i guess i need to click with someone and that can happen with so many personality types.

    i guess looking back i seem to go for complicated almost troubled minds, maybe when i see a complicated, flawed beautiful mind thats keeping in some darkness i feel at home

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  • BlackyHancock

    You have pluses and minuses (as we all do).

    Your height and weight sound great. You're female - that's a plus. Sounds like you might be attractive to me - or you might not. A person can't know that until they see a photo or meet.

    I like shy girls, I think they're sexy. wavy mid length hair is fine.

    On the negative side you say: 'freaks out when having physical contact (hugs or kisses)' serious is ok to a point, but its good to know when to leave it behind. You sound like you are down on yourself and the self harm stuff is a bit of a red flag.

    My general preferences for a woman:
    I like an honest, caring and loving woman. I like someone who likes to have fun and get out the the house and do stuff together. I like someone who likes physical contact and enjoys a healthy sex life.

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  • Westone

    I date you but one thing is to end that negative view on yourself. It would determine our longevity. Id be there to coach you but truly I cant fix your poor image perception. Its up to you. You cant find happiness with someone...gotta start with yourself first. Start by meeting new people, groups etc. Learn the fact that 9/10s of people dont give a shit. Really they dont. Most judgement start with yourself. Society places too much demand on women for image. Even the ideology of what a man has to be is a joke.

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  • Rihyae

    No I'm superficial and have a thing for blue eyes, plus I'm 5'8 and like tall guys. Nice hair though.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where's the option for no you're not my type, besides I'm not into chicks anyway?

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    • If you're not into someone like me, you could just use the 3rd option. It counts too.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Nope, because it's not about looks.

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        • Oops!
          I guess I totally misread your comment. Sorry about that, it wasn't intentional...

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          • RoseIsabella

            It's cool. I just think you have to learn to see that there's more to you than your looks and how other people judge you. How do you judge yourself? Do you love and value yourself?

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            • Well, generally I'm satisfied with my appearance, mostly because I don't bother that much about it.
              What I hate on myself is the sudden change of personality and actions. I always try to satisfy someone by changing my mannerisms to hide my true identity. Sometimes I act tough and serious, others happy and energetic.
              I don't know why I do this, if it's to protect myself or to conquer someone's trust. I don't think the shyness it's a good thing but the sudden changes aren't great too.

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    • Ass_gas

      If she provided an option for Friends with benefits, she will get lots of friends and lots of sex. Life will be good.

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      • I'm not a whore, I don't want to be a fuck buddy...
        Didn't you properly read the description?

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        • Ass_gas

          Whores fuck guys they hate just to assert their attractiveness. By being a friend with benefits, you need to feel a strong friendship first. The benefits make the friendship all the more special.

          If you really want love, from reading your description, things look bleak. The option to kill yourself should be replaced by "friends with benefits".

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, I ain't looking fo no damn benefits, yah damn fool!

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  • JackoBlackman

    I'd fuck you, but not date you

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