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What if you met a great girl/guy, who is going to school or has a career, good looking, good person, but they tell you they used to get naked for money. Would you date them? I mean a serious relationship, not just sex.
| Yes, I would. I care about their present not their past. | 149 | |
| No, I can't date someone who has done that. | 47 | |
| I would give it a try, but Im not sure if I could or not. | 106 |
What's wrong with stripping?
As long as the strippers are legal adults and acting of their own free will then there's nothing wrong with them earning money from stripping.
As for degrading... There is no such thing. That's just a phrase others throw around to cast judgement.
If an adult woman CHOSES to pay her bills and rent from stripping that is HER CHOICE. Throwing stones at her does not make the caster a better person.
I agree with you completely. and honestly i've met people who hold jobs that aren't "pathetic" and are actually quite respectable (doctors, registered nurses, teachers) and they seem to have the types of moral standards and mannerisms (mostly cheating and some type of drug use or alcoholism) that people would stereo-typically associate with someone who works in the adult industry. I don't think a person's job or career determines who they are as a person. There's good people and bad people in every profession.
I have never debated if its that persons choice or not....OBVIOUSLY IS THEIR CHOICE! Or else it would be slavery. The question is, would you associate yourself with a person who is capable of doing something so pathetic as that.
Pathetic?
People do what they can to pay the rent.
If someone else is offended at how the rent money is earned... they should OFFER to help pay the rent or hire the strippers to give them "cleaner" jobs.
I mean it's all nice to site and tell people how pathetic they are over how they pay to stay alive... but unless you're willing to help CHANGE that then it's a bit hypocritical.
As I said above:
If someone else is offended at how the rent money is earned... they should OFFER to help pay the rent or hire the strippers to give them "cleaner" jobs.
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No...that is the most idiotic argument. Its like saying if I do not agree with drug attics I should take them all to rehab. In other words you are not entitled to an opinion.
Drug addiction and stripping are two different things.
One is consuming a product
The other is having a job to pay the rent.
If you want to judge someone over how they are paying the rent, you need to give them an alternative means of money ... just slapping them around for not being good enough for your tastes is being judgmental.
Unless of course you're offering them a better job, or offering to pay the rent/bills for them.
Why not?
They don't shag the person, only take their clothes off in front of them.
And there's the added bonus that they're obviously good looking.
As long as this getting naked didn't involve the partaking of activities with other naked persons for financial gain.
I'm talking about sex here people.
I strongly disapprove of sex for money.
Would I date the person?
Only on two conditions:
1) They no longer do it.
2) They have no STD and/or warts, worms, etc.
I would date or marry an ex or even curent stripper. most stripper that I have met outside stripping are very down to earth people and do what needs to be done. Besides that I don't possess that male macho bs about thats my women no one else needs to see her. And I know how to if I am in a relationship with someone then I must be able to trust them regardless of what they do. And the fact of the matter is as long as I can trust her and her trust me, and as long as she come home to me I can kick back and know that at least one of those guys is going go home and jerk off thinking of my women and I have the real thing
well, as i've mentioned before, my ex best friend/roommate was a stripper, and I was exposed to the lifestyle. thru her I met many strippers, and in my opinion, being in that environment is bad for one's spititual and mental health. these girls are all about extracting cash from poor, lonely guys. it's their main agenda. it turns them into (if they're not already) money hungry, slutty bitches.
Hey the ex-stripper is still a person. I wouldnt mind dating them and having fun. Marriage in another thing.
It wouldn't matter even if they still were doing it.
I'll tell ya who I'd never date, I'd never date a current US President. Too much drama.
To be honest Im surprised by the number of people who said yes, I expected more no's
A friend of mine dated a stripper not a while ago, she stole 13,000 dollars from his credit card after a week.
If you are capable of doing something sooo degrading as that,....that says something about who you are, your morals, and your class. Sorry, no time can change that!!!!
I have dated an ex-stripper and an ex-prostitute. A big fuck you to all the haters, they are human beings and most of them don't STD's you are an ignorant cunt for thinking that.