Would you date a woman who has breast enhancements?

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My story is this: I was always overweight. I grew up in a house where junk food was the only food available. When I moved out, I lost all of the weight. I am 5'7" and I now weigh 145 lbs. and before I got my enhancement I was barely a B.

I always had large, shapely breasts. Having small breasts made me severely uncomfortable with my body and 6 years after I got to my target weight, I got a breast enhancement to put me back to DD. They look almost natural and they do fit well with my frame.

I just recently started dating again and I got serious with one of my dates. We went out on multiple dates and we got to the stage where we started really opening up to each other. I told him about my weight loss and breast enhancement and he was severely turned off - he made it very clear to me that he did not want to be with an "unnatural" woman. He didn't call me, text me, nothing. We have completely lost touch.

MEN, does it honestly bother you if a woman has fake breasts?

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No	46
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Anime7

9 years ago | pl

Not really no, as long as you're happy with your appearance then I would be to. Honestly if getting breast augmentation surgery made you a more confident person then who am I to be turned off by that? I like body positivity and like you said you look natural and it fits your frame so I doubt I would even know. In conclusion, no it wouldn't bother me.

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iEatZombies_

9 years ago

You made the choice for yourself and the right guy is going to come along and be respectful and understanding of that. Plenty of guys would be thrilled about your choice. It's actually a good thing he cut you off like that, you don't need to waste your time with someone who doesn't see things the way you do.

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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Since I prefer small boobs, it wold be counter productive for me to date a woman with enhanced breasts, don't you think?

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mixwell

9 years ago

As long as your cunt is real I dont care if your tits are

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FireFlower

9 years ago

I hate my size and am considering implants but if men hate them, or if they feel hard and unnatural the. Maybe I won't get them...

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- (s)aint
  
  9 years ago
  
  I'm not a man but I've touched two girls with implants and two without and those with implants DOES feel hard and different compared to those with natural breasts. But if I look to the APPEARANCE daym those breasts were hot!
  
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Energy

9 years ago

How the fuck is this consisted insecurity??? Unnatural my ass! I love breast implants. I find people who get those to be actually over confident and positive. Not the opposite. People are so fucking weird. If anything girls with fakies are considered Alpha in the rich man's world. It irritates me that that the commoners have a thing against it.

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megadriver

9 years ago

Yeah, I prefer women with natural breasts. As long as they are not too small, or too big, that woman will look beautiful.
I don't like it when women have giant boobs, each the size of my head! That is unattractive. Or big lips (silicone in lips) Fish lips anyone? XD

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davesumba

9 years ago

Not sure what question the poll is asking...
Would you date a woman with implants, or Do you mind if she has implants?

No/Yes respectively for me. Insecure unnaturality is a turn off.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I meant the question originall posed
  
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dom180

9 years ago

I think the common reasons for getting them might bother me. Insecurity is very unattractive, and body posititity is very attractive. But the actual fact of having breasts of a surgically increased size wouldn't turn me off.

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- jeebley
  
  9 years ago | pl
  
  "posititity" Hehe Bit of a a Freudian tit :)
  
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  - jeebley
    
    9 years ago
    
    *slip.
    
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    - dom180
      
      9 years ago
      
      Hahaha.
      
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- dom180
  
  9 years ago
  
  On second consideration, I doubt it would bother me at all. Insecurity is unattractive, but body modification =/= insecurity. I was just mentally comparing it to a tattoo or unconventional piercing, neither of which are related to insecurity and both of which I find attractive, and realised that breast implants are not objectively different. Although I still prefer body modifications which don't appeal to conventional standards of attractiveness.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    9 years ago
    
    Honestly, if I was always a B cup, I probably wouldn't care. But being obese for so long, my breasts were the only positive aspect of my self image so losing them really hurt me.
    
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    - dom180
      
      9 years ago
      
      The thing is, I'm a big believer in taking ownership of your self-esteem and learning to love yourself, rather than taking the quick fix and changing the part of you that you don't like. Implants would fix the immediate problem (the fact that you have low self-esteem), but they wouldn't treat the root cause (the fact that you aren't in control of your feelings).
      
      I do sympathize with you. Do what feels right. But my advice would be working on your positive mental attitude rather than getting surgery.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        I already got the surgery, though. I feel like I have the body I imagined myself to always want growing up as a bigger woman. I know why I felt insecure with small breasts, but I'm honestly 100% happy with my appearance now.
        
        I'll just never understand how there are men who appreciate the fake beauty of colored hair, spray tanned skin, make-up, tattoos and piercings but fake breasts are a huge no-no.
        
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- Riddler
  
  9 years ago
  
  What if they got it because they were poor, couldn't find work and so were trying to get a job as a stripper or something like that. Thats more desperation than insecurity.
  
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  - dom180
    
    9 years ago
    
    The attitude of making a life-long change to your body to conform to the expectations of a boss for a job you only want because you're desperate doesn't attract me either. The money spent on those implants would be better spent training yourself for a job you do want. Living off the government's unemployment benefits for a while would be more appealing to me; at least that shows defiance.
    
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Couman

9 years ago

I wouldn't really care. Sure it's nice to be able to say they're all natural, but if they look good enough that he didn't know thay weren't until you told him, then it doesn't seem to make any difference.

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CoraCook

9 years ago

You got as serious as second base? Blah

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- la_uva_mojada
  
  9 years ago
  
  lol
  
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  - CoraCook
    
    9 years ago
    
    i know, right? hehe
    
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perfectxsilence

9 years ago

My guy friends make fun of women who enhance themselves and put garbage under their skin. A few years ago, one of my male friends asked me for advice on whether or not he should break up with his girlfriend because she was going to get a boob job. I told him to do whatever he felt was right and he dumped her and never looked back. A lot of guys seem to dislike fake women and just want them for a bit of fun because they're superficial but I'm sure there are a few out there who don't mind.

I'm a female and even though I don't plan on getting a boob job, my fiancé would be upset if I did because he constantly says he finds it completely stupid. I myself think a woman who makes herself a bit more plastic is probably insecure and would benefit from therapy but instead, they take the unintelligent way out so I have no respect for them. But since you already went that route, there's really no turning back but I'm sure there will be someone for you. Maybe less options but definitely still someone for you as there is bound to be someone who will love you for you and the procedure you had to change your natural beauty.

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Mr-Myrtos

9 years ago

For what I see in the net and in underwear shops there is a panoply of goods to enhance guys bulges.
Do girls mind it or not?
When it comes to the point must be a disillusion, or not?
They care or not?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  If it can still get hard (which is a problem for men who get the surgical penis enlargement treatments) then yes, I would have an issue with it.
  
  If it functions as normally as well, my breasts appear to, then I don't see it as an issue.
  
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Holzman_67

9 years ago

as long as she doesn't have a fake personality

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NormalIsAsNormalDoes

9 years ago

I tend to think he is an outlier. Yes, maybe it 'bothers' some guys, but so do lots of things that are not necessarily make or break attributes, like acne for example.

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boogie592

9 years ago

well here's a question...Would you date a woman that had a breast reduction?

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Riddler

9 years ago

Why is it a big deal that she had implants? I mean I personally would not have something on my body enhanced or alter unless it was medically necessary but that's just me. Unless you are like Micheal wear it looks like your face might fall off I don't understand why one tiny surgery is going to cause such an issue.

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jeebley

9 years ago

I wouldn't have it any other way.

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PapzBSlim

9 years ago

Just don't go lying about it. You were honest and I bet it was his loss not to continue dating you. I prefer natural but haven't turned a woman down for enhancements. Fools!

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9 years ago

Well sure. If I love someone I'd love'em for who they are. If they want to do something for themselves that makes them happy, more power to'em!

Most people might not care if you've already gotten to know them, but I'm not sure if I'd start off a first date by saying, "My breasts costed 20,000 dollars!"

Just do you, be yourself, do what makes you happy.

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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

It really depends on how big the implants are. If they're too large, then no.

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la_uva_mojada

9 years ago

next time when it gets to the point of sharing, just tell the guy that you had a double mastectomy and got the fakies in the same operation

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