Would you date a man who has an adult child at home/who lives rentfree
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I don't really understand the issue here!
I'd date someone with an adult child at home coz it would be none of my business and I'd think it ok for him to support his own child by providing a home. Also, what he does with his money is his own business and not mine.
However, I would not move in with a man and his adult child!
That is actually the only time I think it would be okay. Otherwise, HELL no. That exact situation almost broke up my aunt's marriage, her two grown sons (one of whom has a wife and 3 kids) were still leeching off her and it was hurting them financially.
Come to think of it though, its not that hard to be a full time student and have a part time job. Full time is only 12 credits, which could be 3 classes. Someone could work 12 hours a week and still pitch in $100 or SOMETHING.
I agree with shinyglitterdoll; that's probably the only time it would probably be ok... unless you're a recent college graduate and is currently looking for a house or something.
Like how old a child? Some children stay home while they go to college. So are you going to say they should kick out the child for deciding to get an education first? Also what if they just can not get a job? It is not like those are incredibly easy to come by these days.
If you really like the man it won't matter what arrangements he has with his adult children..which is frankly, not your business to begin with. Its silly and shallow to let something so trivial get in between you and a man you are fond of.