Would you consider giving a lapdance to someone else to be cheating?

it must have been quite humiliating for him to see his girlfriend simulating a lapdance to another guy- were his friends all watching too? embarrasing.
I guess he thinks if you can do that then what else you gonna do to other guys. But yeah he has to get on with it and get over it if things are going to work for you guys.

You gave a guy a lap-dance on a dare? It sounds like your very young so I suppose you find this behaviour completely acceptable even though your in a relationship. I don't know if could be classified as cheating or not, however it would be considered inappropriate. I certainly wouldn't want my girlfriend giving guys lap-dances. Everyone has their boundaries and crossing them can be devastating to your relationship. If your kind of a 'wild girl' then you need to find mates that are OK with behaviours associated with that personality trait. You can't just get someone that's not OK with their girlfriend being free with her body to go along and accept it. Not going to work. If you like the guy, let him know that you didn't intend on being unfaithful and reassure him the boundary won't be crossed in the future. Also, let him know that true forgiveness means not using the incident as emotional ammunition to fire at you whenever he's feeling upset with you. I do believe he's exaggerating a little, but he's hurt so give it time.

Well its pending on the degree of the lap dance

if it was really into it then yes, you're an ass and u were cheating.

If it was more of a joke then no, ur good, not cheating

Well , he might be thinking '' it's the only shit I have proof of, what else is she up to in these parties?!''

And it's very embarassing for him. And you gave him an ''hint'' to be insecure with you.

If I was him I would start to have second tought every time you come back of a party with a smile on your face thinking '' what the fuck she did again? ''

it's not cheating if it's your job but....if not it's a form of cheating i guess but you were in a room with other ppl and it doesn't sound like you were grinding on him. make better judgement calls in the future and your guy should hopefully get past this.

interesting thought... i am actually a stripper and i think about stuff like this all the time. like, when is my job crossing the line. i think its totally different than what you are saying but still..

um, i think what you are saying is definitely questioning moral turpitude. is it cheating? hm, i dont know. is it right? probably not so much.

Well in my opinion that is cheating, whether on a dare or not... The male brain can/does go crazy when the thought hits us that someone is being unfaithful to us...

If I had a girlfriend, and I found out she was giving other guys lap dances, I would be fucking pissed. I would also be pissed if she was giving girls lap dances, because where the hell was I for that!?

You didnt have sex not cheating

What u did was wrong, the fact he saw it in a picture and didnt hear it from u makes it worse. We all make mistakes, admit ur fault, learn from it and in future think carefully wether what ur about to do would hurt him then decide wether to act or not. And the whole dare thing, wise up with that. If i was in ur boyfriends position i would be thinkin what if u were dared to suck this guys cock, would u have done it.

Wow cant believe he still with you cheater.

i dont think its cheating. most guys go to strip clubs and get private dances all the time and a lot of these guys are married or in relationships so i dont see the difference. it was just a dare and its not like you do it all the time so he needs to lighten up and be proud that he has a sexy girlfriend.

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Cheating.

no shit

A friend of mine's wife gave me a lap dance once when we were very drunk.. it was awkward, but not a big deal. Some people just make more of things than they actually are.. you certainly know him better than us.

Also there's a slight chance he is cheating on you. Its extremely common for cheaters to over analyze things like that and accuse their partner of the very thing they feel guilty about.