Would you cheat on your partner if you had the chance?

yesterday night my friend and i were arguing about marital fidelity . He claimed that it's impossible to be always loyal...aboveall for a married couple. i don't agree. if i'm in love with my partner, why should i look for someone else? my friend said that even the most in love person would cheat on his partner if he/ she had the opportunity to do it. i got mad at him when he said that. everyone has a will and it has to be used to avoid these situations. what do you think?

no, i 've got moral values and i would never cheat on my partner 213
i swore fidelity to my partner and i 'll keep my promise 64
if my partner was far away, i'd probably do it 75
i did it when i had the chance 69
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  • sperminator

    Everyone says they will never do it but look at the divorce rate!!! 99% due to screwing around.

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  • I've been with my husband for about 10 years now and I've never been tempted to cheat. To me, no other men are as awesome as my husband.

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    Cheating shows how pathetic one can be.

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  • feelingofselfworthlessness

    I'd never INTEND to cheat on a partner, but I reckon, given the chance, I'd do the stupid thing and do it. I'd hate myself forever though.

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  • sickness

    No. My wife has basically shut me out completely and I've had like, a million chances to kiss or whatever and I can't do it. Even though my wife has pretty much lost me from being so distant, I remain faithful... probably because I'm an idiot.

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  • jessicia16

    most people will say men are the worst for cheeting ,,,, honestly I have many friends and to me women are the very worst... guys will cheet often coz the girl is comming on strong and playing him ... but girls cheet by desire and seduction and are much much better at it and usually get away with it and can lie about it WAY better than guys :)

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  • BUGABOO-666-

    Dudes are different. If it's tempting enough, even the dude who thinks he knows himself best and thinks that he would never cheat might go for it depending on the convenience.

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  • lovephatpussies

    nah if i was with a girl i really leaned with i wouldnt,is it me or are girls really fucken weird these days

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  • lululu

    and if you were on a desert island with another man who is not your partner....how would you behave? would you be able to avoid of cheating?would you keep your promise of fidelity? i know this is an absurd case but i want you to be honest...

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    • dappled

      I'm not sure why someone gave you the thumbs down there and put you down to zero. I think you make a really interesting point. The question I suppose, is when it ceases to become cheating because you are separated from your partner and they are probably going to move on too. It's a very astute way of looking at it, and one that I hadn't thought of.

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  • DrinaVonCheez

    Ive been given the chance plenty of times, especially in past relationships & I NEVER took them.
    And cheating to me is kissing/ having sex, or hanging out romantically with someone other than your partner.
    So yes, i believe its possible to be faithful in a relationship.

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  • dappled

    What's the point in committing to someone if you know that you're going to trap off with someone else the first chance you get? If you're going to do that, don't have a partner. Just play the field. Seriously, don't string someone along while sleeping with every Thomasina, Ricki and Harriet behind their back.

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  • Brickinit

    I'm 26 male and true blue, my ex cheated on me a couple of times, still knowing that i wouldnt cheat on her, i had the chance plenty of times, boils down to 2 things, self respect and self control.

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  • Mr-Time

    No, not ever. Not even if i had a gun to my head. I think that people who cheat are not only pathetic and weak but fundamentaly sick. Because when you cheat you are hurting your parnter in the most primative and deepest way. And not only are you ok with that, you are getting off on it. A ex who cheated on me told me afterwards that because she had never cheated before it was "new and exciting". There is a word for those that are turned on by the suffering of others, sadistic. There is no excuse, no justification, no reason to cheat. If your relationship is really that bad then get out of it. And if its not bad enough to leave then don't cheat. If you do, you forfiet your right to live.

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    • missmood

      I agree with what you have written, however if someone had a gun to my partners head, demanding some jiggy-jig. He would have my permission to fuck his brains out ;)

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  • stillwondering

    I could never purposefully hurt someone I loved like that.

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  • BlueAlice

    It utterly baffles me why so many people consider doing ANYTHING with someone other than their partner (if they have one) is so completely wrong.

    Sometimes you just want/need to try someone else new for size.
    If both/all parties are OK with it and it will 99.99% definitely be a one-off... not a big deal at all.

    The reason we have such a high divorce rate is because people are obsessed with the notion of 'cheating' (Which, frankly, there is really no such thing as in my mind).

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  • rick12101

    i did and i still hate myself for it ,,,,,

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  • norcalbuddha

    Cheating is wrong and WEAK. If you're in a committed relationship (married or not) cheating is never ok...if you have to screw around on someone then break up...spare the other person the heartache.

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  • b454

    Iv had chances to cheat but that's just disgusting. I would never, have never and will never. My hubby is the best and nothing is worth losing him

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  • paddjo95

    My last relationship ended because she cheated on me. Here is my favorite saying "If someone pisses you off, forgive and forget. If someone breaks your heart forgive but NEVER forget".
    I would never cheat.

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    • Amen to that. The same thing happened to me after I had to leave to live in another city and I loved her undyingly but she stabbed me in the back and cheated on me at a party she went to within a week. She blamed it on being lonely when I found out and I forgive her because I simply was not there for her. But it hurt that she didn't love me

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  • boopgirl17

    I actually keep my promises. I will never get married, but hypothetically speaking, if I did, I would be faithful to that man for the rest of my life. I'd never hurt him.

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  • Aleks85

    Nope, not what I'm about.

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  • Winter.Finale

    Depends on a lot of things...

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  • seeking

    I would never cheat. Don't do to others what you don't want done to you. Then why be in a relationship, commitment or marriage. I don't understand people that cheat. It isn't worth it. You lose more that you can ever imagine. And I don't care what anyone says. You never forget.

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  • joybird

    My friends are all married and none of them would ever cheat. I get chatted up every weekend and have surely heard every chat-up line in the book by now! I find it insulting if they know I am married. 'What do they think I am?' It's a sad reflection on people's morals nowadays. I'm a confident female anyway, so don't need some waster telling me I'm good-looking etc, in the hope of getting his leg over!

    I don't value their opinions and I know what I look like coz there are mirrors in my house.

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  • Can't know for certain. I'd like to think I'd never do it especially if it was a serious relationship that I wanted to carry on.

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  • howaminotmyself

    It isn't about opportunity. That isn't hard to come by. It's about the value you place on your relationship and how much you respect your partner.

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  • rico30

    My Woman an I are just glad we found each other. We both agree that playing the field gets tiring after a while.

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  • ????

    No becaus ewhen you find th right girl or even the right guy you shouldnt need to. I have been with my girlfriend for a long time and i love you and would never want to mess it up.

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  • BoredGuy

    its not about the values, or the morality or the promise. Is simply cause i dont want to do it, cause i'm sexually attracted to my partner more than anyone else. If this doesnt apply then you should go ahead and do it after you break up with him/her.

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  • hotgayrick

    i love it . i love to cheat.. it a hi and i love it we all do it so come on and tell the true love you see i love to be a slut . and i and good at it love rickie you one hot slut .

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    • missmood

      'hotgayrick' has a 'disease ridden dick'

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  • firefly88

    I've cheated 4 times, twice when we were bf/gf and twice when married. Surprisingly all four guys I cheated on him with were not as good as him sexually and they were not as handsome as he was. Well maybe one of them was. But honestly my hubby was and is the best lover. I have a wandering eye I guess, can't help it.

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    • BoredGuy

      i hope he finds out, tell us what happened!

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