Would you call your boyfriend 'daddy'?
I know that it's not that strange of a thing, but it still caught me off guard
| Yes | 69 | |
| No | 57 |
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CinnamonWolf
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megadriver
I'd find it weird if my girlfriend started calling me "daddy".
Especially in bed.I think it's only acceptable if you are married, have kids and refer to each other as "mommy" and "daddy" in front of the kids, or just joke around.
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leggs91200
You could smack her on the butt if you two do it doggy style. During which, say, "Who's your daddy? Who's your daddy?"
If things get awkward and she says her dad skipped out when she was a kid, smack her on the butt a couple more times and say, "Did he pay child support? How much?"
THAT would not be weird at all. :)
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Feral_ghoul
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charli.m
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SwickDinging
I agree. Even once you have kids and really are a mummy and daddy, it's still weird to call each other that.
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Anonymous Post Author
Yeah, If I heard someone calling their boyfriend daddy I'd probably be a little uncomfortable too. I wouldn't call him it in front of anyone else 😂. I can't believe I'm actually talking about this, it's unreal
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Dot123
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SKDM007
or would you call your girlfriend "mommy"? the results would be far different
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SwickDinging
In bed? Or just in general?
I think in bed if it turns you both on then fine, whatever, but to do this in normal day to day life is weird.
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If it was just in bed I wouldn’t care, but he wants it to be in general
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Boojum
My parents never called each other by their first names when they were around us kids. It's not what we do it with our kid, but I can understand the logic. If you don't have children, then what he's asking just seems weird to me, and it suggests he wants to impose a parent-child power dynamic on your relationship.
I think you're right to be uncomfortable with this, and I also think you need to talk to him about why he wants this. If he can't give a plausible explanation, then either he's lying and not telling you things he knows you won't respond well to, or he needs to do some introspection to figure out why exactly this appeals to him.
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SwickDinging
Sounds really weird. But hey, if you guys want to then don't let anyone stop you. You do you. Just be prepared for a lot of follow up questions and raised eyebrows.
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curious-bunny
I have and continue to do so. He likes it and it causes me no harm so why not?
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SeekNPlay
Fuck yeah I would. That’s hot. While I’m pounding her from the back I want her to scream daddy!
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Blacktictac
It’s definitely complicated but it can just be when you want to encourage and reward behavior you want to see more of
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mm6969
My wife calls me daddy in bed. I'm 2o years older than her. No harm done. It's all in fun
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Indigo1
IMO in healthy relationships, partners do things for each other that they themselves may not be in to. so long as it does no harm/ is not too physically or emotionally extreme for the one who asked to do something outside of their comfort zone, then its often a way to grow a healthier stronger relationship. it all comes down to how you feel about calling him such a thing, if its not too terrible for you, id reckon its worth it to help fulfill your loved ones desires, but don't let the scale be tipped , find something you like that he can do for you despite him not getting much benefit from it. I feel like the more "two way street" you can get regarding pleasing each other in ways not only for our selfish desires but focusing on fulfilling our partners desires, the healthier relationships grow.
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HalfInsaneFemale
No that’s weird. I feel like the girls who would do that, don’t actually have a father figure in their life. Cause if they did it would seem kinda weird too
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Tealights
I can see why men like it, fathers command authority over their family, especially the women; men find that kind of control/power/taboo hot.
There's nothing wrong with this, because some girls actually want or need this sort of thing. However, I don't have dad issues, therefore I find it unnecessary. The most I'll probably do is call my boyfriend Dad sarcastically after we have children.
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IrishPotato
The only people couples who did this are juvenile ones involving two edgy "cool" kids.
They're fucking retarded.
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JD777
I had a gf call me Daddy when we were in the heat of the moment in bed. It completely creeped me out.
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Columbusbiguy
I had a fling on the side a few years back that was about 15 years younger than me, she called me daddy in the sack. It did not bother me at all, probably because of the age difference. She aldo called me sweetie and hun, and stuff like that. I guess im not that hung up on stuff like that.
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