Would you call this cheating?

If a wife gives her husband permission to sleep with another woman would you call this cheating?

I wouldn't because she gave him permission but I know people who still say its cheating so what do you guys think?

yes 35
no 56
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  • mysistersshadow

    Not cheating. Many couples have all kinds of arrangements and as long as every one knows and its all consensual then its between the ppl involved and no one elses business.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Nope, but I'd bet she's got somebody on the side and she wants him, not her husband.

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  • lovetolickass

    cheating is when u lie if she let u do a threesum with her thats not cheating

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  • RoseIsabella

    I consider it to be cheating, and I'd rather be alone than make an "arrangement".

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    • Ellenna

      Yeah, that's fine,but how can it be "cheating" if the other party is ok with it? Never heard of polyamory or open relationships?

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      • RoseIsabella

        I've heard of it, but I don't endorse it.

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        • Ellenna

          It suits some people very well: it's not without its issues, but then neither is monogamy in my experience, the biggest one being the expectation that one person can meet all another person's needs long term. I'm not saying that's impossible but it's rare and trying to achieve it leads to a lot of frustration and resentment and far to often, dishonesty and cheating.

          I don't think it's really up to you to endorse or not endorse it for other people though.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Well, OP asked, and I answered with my personal opinion. I would personally rather be alone than share. I'm afraid to say this, because I don't wanna jinx myself, but it would be nice if my long, tall Texan turned out to be "the one". I don't wanna force anything. Que Sera Sera... yanno? Still I want the kinda relationship where my man and I are best friends, lovers and partners, where we pour ourselves into each other.

            I'm feeling zombiesque, because he's flying in from Houston tonight, and I've been cleaning the house for the past 12 hours, I've been running on vitamins, and just 3 1/2 hours of sleep. I feel like I ought to be nervous, but I'm too tired.

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            • The_Creep_is_back

              Just enjoy the moment. You're a serial monogamist anyway. I can tell.

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  • Ms.Dempsy

    Open relationship not cheating,

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  • flamer180

    If you want to fk another girl, go ahead. It does depend on the situation, but fking a girl you dont know?

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  • bjBarry

    I sucked a guy off and my girlfriend got pissed because she said it was cheating. Not sure about that.

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    • Ellenna

      If you're the person who did it behind her back and she found out via photo's then you were cheating.

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      • bjBarry

        Yeah, that was me.

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    • Ellenna

      So you're still not sure that was cheating? Didn't you read the responses to your post or are you just thick?

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