Would using a condom for your first time normal?

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So i talk to my friends and they all generally seem to agree if your going to have sex for your first time that you should use a condom. yea in my school they taught that you should use protection but i see sex as something that should be special your first time. me and all my other guy friends arent the type to just have sex with anything and everything or have sex become our main hobby or lifestyle but im generally the only one that thinks that the first time you have sex with a girl/boy (in this situation both of you are virgins) that a condom shouldnt be used because it messes with the whole experience, like you cant fully connect with the other person.too young/broke for birth control and i know im not going to cum inside her i would def pull out but, is it normal to want to not use a condom your first time?

yes i want the full experience my first time 3
i would let him/her chose. 1
save up for birth control and sneak it past parents 1
yes but ill use them after if i have the self control 0
no better to be safe even if its the first time 19
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    The "can't fully connect" thing makes no sense. It's just a tiny piece of plastic... you're telling me that's enough to stop you connecting with another person?

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    • dom180
      10 years ago

      Once you've had sex with a condom, you'll realise that all the crap some people say about condoms making sex worse is bullshit. The sensation really is exactly the same, the only downside is taking a break from foreplay for thirty seconds to stick it on.

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  • SHAKEStheClown
    10 years ago

    No glove no love!

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    Stay safe kid

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  • WhiteOctober
    10 years ago

    Be careful, you don't want to make that poor girl pregnant and ruin her life!

    I love sex myself, but I've almost always used a condom (only once without, and that wasn't my first time). Better be safe than sorry.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Definitely wrap it before you tap it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    Pulling out isn't effective birth control.

    Your precum also has sperm in it.

    IIRC the saying is... "Do you know what they call men who pull out? ... They call them fathers."

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    I can definitely understand why you'd feel that way, but it's probably smarter to get in good habits right away.

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