Would this bother you?

You're overreacting. You've been going out for a month, and honestly, what she does with her friends is her business. You're her significant other, not her mother.

Surprise! She IS a drunken party animal!
Deal with it. You are becoming far too possessive of her, which is why she probably doesn't want you hanging around when she wants to let loose. If you were there, you probably would spoil the party, drag her home and bore her to death.

My ex did some drinking without me. My ex wife went to a party without me before we were married. She had a little bit too much to drink and started teasing the guys. After she let them strip her, it was only a matter of time before they were going to F her. She told me they raped her but after hearing what went on, she wanted and needed a cock that night. Since I wasn't there, 5 guys satisfied her a number times while she remained naked for 10 hours.

My bf does that rarely and it does bug me& I don't do it at all cus he flips the fuck out (talk about double standards) but consider we've been going out for over a year. During the first month of dating we didnt ask eachother for permission we just told eachother what we were doing. I think maybe you are over reacting but you say it's serious and if that's so you should probably tell her how you feel (: good luck!

Drinking with her friends or going to a party? Sounds more like a party.. Maybe ask to tag along?

My bf and I do that (go out till late without eachother), very rarely though. I think it's pretty normal. It's nice you seem worried about her safety.. But if it bothers you maybe you should just date more of a homebody. Who knows, she might never even actually go out till 2 with her friends

Nope. It would bug me too!

I would flip the fuck out, she could end up getting raped, or even just have sex because she's drunk.

It depends.

If she wanted to have a late night out with friends every once in a while, then no, it isn't a problem. If she goes out every weekend this way and excludes you, then of course it would bother you.

It sounds as though you're not too into the whole party scene. I don't blame you; I never was, either. If she is, then it might be problematic for your relationship in the long term. You've only known one another a month, so even if your feelings are strong, you're both still learning things about one another. Finding that she parties more than you like is an important thing to learn.

Personally, it would bother me, so I think that your feelings are normal and you are not overreacting.

It would bother me a bit but I would still let them go out and have fun. I would let it be known it would bother me, but I wouldn't judge them any differently if they still went out. I believe you need to be independent in relationships and not focus on your wants and needs over your partners. Also, you have to be very trusting. If she wants this relationship, she won't do anything to compromise it, but if she does do something, it's better to find out sooner than later.

My ex went out on his 21st birthday without me because his friends wanted to take him out and have a "guys night" even though later he told me there were chicks there too. He also didn't come home until 9am the next morning. I already told him it bothered me that he was spending his 21st without me. We had talked about celebrating it together since we couldn't go drinking when I turned 21 since he was still 20. I was very trusting and understood him wanting to go out. He made a bad move for our relationship, in my eyes. It was one of many things that led to our break up.

What the fuck!? Why do you have a problem with her getting smashed with her friends!??!? What are you people talking about trust for??

Dude, you keep up this crazy over-attached shit, I'm telling you, she's going to leave you. You wouldn't do it without her? What are you talking about? Why do you have to be around her when she gets wasted? I seriously fail to see what the big deal is. I go out and get fucking wasted with my friends, why would having a gf mean I couldn't do that? Because ohh I might get so drunk that suddenly I'll start fucking a random broad? No.

I'm sensing that you're a bit of a bitch. Just chill the fuck out man, if she wants to cheat on you she will. You can't stop her, and trying to stop her from drinking will only piss her off. You're not her dad, you're her slam piece. Now go tear up some sugar walls man. Do me proud.

It wouldn't bother me. The time wouldn't really make much of a difference to me and neither would the drinking.

She could go out drinking and simply not drink that much or just pace herself through the night.

You don't really have to be a drunk to stay out all night drinking with friends. In college, a lot of my friends would drink most of Friday night, but they would only drink to a reasonable level then switch over to either nonalcoholic stuff or some mixed stuff so they didn't get too bad.

If she does end up going drinking, she may drink so much that she blacks out and does things with people without even realizing or remembering what she did and to who. There are many guys out there that would easily take advantage of the situation and well.... But if you completely trust her then you have nothing to worry about. lol