Would this be considered a healthy relationship?

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Just wondering? I always daydream about my guy. And he doesn't seem to like me so I'm thinking once I finish school, I can start by asking him out to a dance, and if he refuses, I keep asking in a friendly way. And he won't be able to avoid me that much since I'm friends with his friends, so I keep asking, I mean hopefully, he will eventually like me :).

yes 6
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    The word stalker came to mind when I read your post. There isn't a 'friendly way' to stalk someone who wants nothing to do with you. How would you feel if the tables were turned and you didn't like somebody who wouldn't take no for an answer?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Good point, but I guess I just want him really badly.

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        A lot of people want what they can't have, leave him be and accept that he isn't into you. Maybe that will actually get him interested in you.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Every step you take
    Every move you make
    I'll be watchin you

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      9 years ago

      Oh can't you see?
      You belong to me...
      My poor heart aches!
      With every step you take!

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    No. Definitely not. Life isn't a sitcom or a Disney movie. If he turns you down, leave him alone. There are too many fish in the sea to be harassing one little flounder :(

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  • 000001
    9 years ago

    you have great resilience, could get you places if you put it to good use

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Thanks :). I have high professional aspirations in life, so your comment means a lot to me.

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  • Miller18
    9 years ago

    First your dont sure of his answer?? There a chance he could say yes to the dance!! but the part were your going to ask him The same question over and over to change his mind ..prob wont work

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