Would it be okay?

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Last night in my martial arts class I had the opportunity to practice with a girl who I find to be attractive.
She can't fall properly. So I think I might've hurt her shoulder just a little bit. Not hurt as in the bad kind... I just think she's not accustomed to pain.

Anyway. We were talking and I made her laugh and we clicked kinda. And her skin is soft.

So I was thinking... would it be okay if I make her a tiny, pretty box with a note saying "I'm sorry for almost ripping your arm off by accident"...and in the box I would put a band-aid and also a cookie (but wrapped in see through plastic and neatly tied with a ribbon.

Would it be weird? I don't want her to think that I want her or anything like that... but it would be okay if she accepted the gift and thought I was sweet and ask me for my number so that we can have meaningful conversations and grow together and maybe, eventually, hang out. god her eyes are so blue.

okay 12
not okay 2
creepy 5
weird but sweet 9
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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    That sounds like something my boyfriend would do to a guy or girl he wants to get to know better/be friends with in a non romantic way. So, yeah, do it. She might appreciate it.
    :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      This is also my intention. To be friends at first but I won't mind if something romantic develops from it. I guess i'm just scared of the possible rejection part. Like what if she says she doesn't want it and now I'm stuck having to attend class with her every week and pretend that she doesn't exist?

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  • D17PLT
    7 years ago

    Do It!! It sounds so sweet and cute. She will love it. Don't ever be afraid to show someone your feelings because before you know it you have lost your chance. :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Before posting this poll I already made up my mind that I was gonna do it... but now I keep telling myself to rather not because she might take it the wrong way

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      • satanniggasandpopsicle
        7 years ago

        just do it

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  • D17PLT
    7 years ago

    She won't I'm sure, it's a really nice thing to do. Don't worry about it :)

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  • privatepropertykeepout
    7 years ago

    No that sounds weird.

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  • DosSombreroes
    6 years ago

    That's hilarious! Do it, dude!

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    you will make her feel special .

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  • McBean
    7 years ago

    Express genuine concern, and ask if her shoulder is getting better first. If she says it is, then give her the present.

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  • SmokeEverything
    7 years ago

    Yeah thats kimd of funnier than it is creepy. She might reject it but people are prudes so thats the risk you run

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      That's what I'm afraid of. If she rejects it, it will be in front of the entire class. And I don't wanna put pressure on her because when I give it to her, it will be in front of the entire class

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      • SmokeEverything
        7 years ago

        Sometimes girls reject you its part of life. Wont get anywherenif you dont try

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