Would i make a good councilor?

For a while now I have been considering a career as a mental health worker. I am asking here because I often give advice which leads me to believe people here will have good input.
There are many reasons why I think I would, and would not be good at this.

Reasons I would be good.
-I am good at problem solving and logical reasoning.
-I have personal experience as a client and want to improve the system for others. I have found lot's wrong with how things are done and want to make a difference.
-I have first hand experience dealing with mental health problems. This is a plus for the job because you must experience something to truly understand it.
-I have known a lot of people on drugs and want to help others get off drugs.
-I am tolerant of others and am non-judgmental.
-I have experience as a support group co-facilitator and have a license issued by NAMI.

Reasons I would mot be good.
-I have a general lack of cognative empathy, meaning I do not understand some people at all. I realize I am not the best judge of character and never can tell if somebody is being serious or honest, or not. This has a benefit though that I can look at everything from a neutral standpoint without investing my own emotions. As long as the client cooperates this shouldn't be a problem.
-I don't seem good at comforting sensitive people who get upset easily.
-I hate when people ask for advice and then purposely do the opposite. Why did they ask?
-I don't seem to understand the emotional side of some things.

In conclusion I believe I would make an excellent counciler for some people and a terrible one for others. I am good at looking at the facts of the problem and providing problem skills, but I do not seem to be somebody who provides good emotional support.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • TimmyTheTurtle

    the real question here is... would I make a good counselor? ?

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  • thegypsysailor

    Too long winded.

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  • LifeTheRide

    Until you try, there's no way of knowing. Go with what your heart says. If you feel as if you'd be a good couselor and want to help others then that's what you should do.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Have you taken any classes yet? I think they teach you specifics like how to be supportive without taking your clients attitude too personally. look into what qualifications youd need and see if its something youd want to do.

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    • I took classes when I voulenteered with NAMI, but I would probablly need to go for a degree to do it for money. I have no problem with not taking things personally. It's others who sometimes take me too personally.

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      • wistfulmaiden

        Id say give it a try, my boyfriend was a councilor for kids for about 10 years but he didn't get medical benefits so he got into other work. He did like it though.

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