Would a guy get turned off if a girl wants to help/protect him?

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Yes, guys don't like it 16
No, guys wouldn't mind 15
No, guys would actually appreciate it 29
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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    Why would a guy get turned off by it. Yes I'm a girl but I know for sure guys would be turned on by it truthfully.

    Goodness there needs to be more girls who would stand up for a guy, in my opinion. I most certainly would, but I would want him to stand up for me too of course. :)

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I'm half and half on this. I can see why a lot of guys wouldn't be turned on by it.

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      • Saycheese
        12 years ago

        Yeah I didn't mean all men. But yeah there are a lot of guys who want to be the macho one and not want any girl standing up for him.

        Which truthfully that would be a turn off for me. I want a guy to accept me standing up for him but I'm not saying all the time though.

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          It's understandable, and I think it's agreat feature to have. But, you have to be quite careful of how you defend your partner. If you're defending your partner to another man, then if your partner didn't want it to esculate, he could be the one that suffers because his partner made it esculate by defending him, when he wanted it to not go further than namecalling, etc.

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          • Saycheese
            12 years ago

            Oh no, I didn't mean it that way at all. I would never go that far. I stay away from drama as much as possible, so why cause it. But if I knew that person had no way of defending themselves I would defend my partner if he wasn't going to.

            If it truely would go further, like physical violence then I would step out of it and hope to god that my partner would too. Plus I would think it would be stupid if the person was some friend or someone we knew and my partner still kept contact with them after the fight. Unless that person apologizes and actually means it.

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    I don't know in what way your talking but I do love a girl gutsy enough and loyal enough to go someone in my defense.
    Both of you should stick up for each other , it doesn't mean she's gonna tackle some guy to the ground that's giving him shit but hey , have seen girls that would and have , my kinda girl.
    It's not that you might need a girl to fight your battles, it's about "her feeling that way about you " ! She should feel that way about you and you her. I think it's really cool and I'd love her to bits for it.

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  • westoptic
    8 years ago

    I can't speak for all guys, but most of the time when I stick up for my guy friends they end up getting butthurt about it. They basically feel like "I don't need a girl to fight my battles for me!"... Okay, fair enough, but what kind of friend am I when I sit there and listen to people shit talk my guy friends while they just take it because they're afraid to defend themself/or get into a fight.

    I will never apologize for sticking up for someone, male or female.

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    I beat people up to empress her I'd probally be more turnd on then not

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago

    I hate help from men or woman.

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  • mikafor
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't mind a girl that isn't afraid of somebody else, and is able to stand up and challenge someone.

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    Yeah I mean that's also an angle from a male point of view for sure - well it will be in the eyes of the morons that are hassling you anyway.
    But the first things that come to my mind was more verbal stuff , I mean I find out a yr later this is , my ex gf use to back stab me to my sisters - I mean for fuck sake that's just bs and it's just as bad that my sisters f'n listened to it instead of telling her to f'k off or let me know about it.
    And the gf should have been sticking up for me anything, if they or anyone else said somem bad about me behind my back. They were all back stabbing bitches as bad as each other as far as I 'm concerned

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    I would hate it if a girl that I was dating got in the way of a fight with another guy. Unfortunately it seems their nature to do this. What are you going to do? Nothing. Youre gonna make your man look soft, and probably get him cheap shotted.

    Take care of me after I get my war wounds, not before or during.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I think it probably really depends on the guy personally. I would like it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    it depends on the details and situation.

    a man may like having a woman who sticks up for him.
    but if he feels she's mothering him then it may not work the way you imagined it

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think a girl that will stick up for him against girls is something he's like, but standing up for him against men, I doubt it.

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