Worried about being bicurious?

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There's no doubt that I might just be bicurious; I find myself being attracted to girls lately. I have friends who are bi and it's totally fine, but realizing that I might be bi sorta makes me worry. Worrying has to do with whether my parents will accept this or if even my friends will. Moreover, I'm a bit overwhelmed about my sexuality as well..

Is it normal to feel this way-- worrying about being bicurious?

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  • elenaki
    11 years ago

    Hey, you're you. And you have the right to be yourself. If you're attracted to both guys and girls that's cool. You don't have to label yourself. Sexuality is fluid. You don't have to worry about anything. Accepting yourself is the first step. If you do, you will realize you don't need to feel accepted by others. If you're confident about who you are people will see past the label. They will see you and respect you for the person you really are. If they don't accept you and respect you fuck them! They're just holding you down. Even if it's your parents. Because no matter what they might say they cannot not love you. Never let anybody hold you down, and be true to yourself. I'm not saying announce it publicly if you don't want to. What I'm saying is don't pretend. There will only be one of you, ever. Don't let her be fake.

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  • Foreverdecay
    11 years ago

    Its normal. Im bisexual, though i never hit the stage of being bi curious. I always knew. But ive had friends that were curious. Years later they still cant make up their mind. Just dont worry about what other people will think and youll find out what you really like.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    This is one of the best advices anyone has ever given me; considering the fact that it was given to me by a person I don't know. Lol
    The last sentence definitely changed my mind about questioning my sexuality.
    Thank you so much!

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    • elenaki
      11 years ago

      You're welcome :)

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    You are just curious. You don't need to freak yourself out - they are just feelings.

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  • womanchild27
    11 years ago

    Try it out, just don't try it when you're in a relationship. Some men won't like it. And if you are bisexual, make sure your other half or future other half will accept it.

    I didn't know I was bi until several years into my relationship and when my husband found out, it devastated him.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    You'll grow out of it. Don't worry

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  • pancakesorwaffles
    11 years ago

    butters is bisexual

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  • usehername28
    11 years ago

    It's totally normal. To this day, I still don't know exactly which sexuality I'm fully devoted too. I just like whomever captures my interest. I used to date a girl for about 2 years, but I've mostly been with guys. Still, I know a hot girl when I spot her. Still, I know a hot guy when I spot him.

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