Wondering how beautiful celebs can't find love

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I have to admit that it makes me sick when you hear how hot and beautiful celebs have trouble with love..either they hook up with shit guys who don't deserve them,or ones that are just too stupid to appreciate what they have. I would love,(and appreciate!) being with girls like Taylor Swift,Ariana Grande,Katy Perry, every moment of the way,but won't meet them,but know i can be such a better match compared to what they do hook up with! It's just so depressing when you can hear their pain/lonliness in their music and see it in their lives and KNOW i could be just what they are wanting/needing but won't have the chance! Am i alone in feeling this way?

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mauzi

4 years ago | pl

Firstly their public persona is completely fake so you have no idea who they really are behind closed doors. Secondly if they really are alone it’s either because they are toxic themselves or not interest in love. Just because someone is physically attractive doesn’t mean they will be truly loved. You’re confusing that with lust which I’m sure they get as much as they want of. Hopefully you are just a kid because you are extremely naive, or you are just posting with more blood flowing down below than to your brain.

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Tealights

4 years ago | pl

Fame and wealth make relationships difficult; also, we dont know their true personality.

I think you've still got an important lesson to learn: A beautiful woman isnt necessarily a good woman.

Society punishes some of our primitive instincts, especially the one where we think it's ok settle down with someone solely because of how genetically appealing she/he is.

Why? Most beautiful people know their bait is hot and dont have to fish long to get a bite, thus they dont experience many hardships or struggles that would help them grown as a person; many of them expect you to appreciate them for being beautiful, which will cause an imbalance in any relationship and destroy it.

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- Doesnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  Great response mate!
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  tealights, you are right, i do need to learn this lesson, thank you for pointing this out,been like this my whole life!
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  i mean yeah you are right,but this cant always be the case everytime. it's just aggrivating to know what i could do for women like that,but don't have a chance,but watch some piece of shit who's nowhere as right for them get the chance.
  
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  - Tealights
    
    4 years ago
    
    Well, think of it this way: The company you choose reflects on you.
    
    These beautiful, stunning women in all their physical glory chose these men, and repeatedly keep choosing bad guys one after the other. At some point, it's her who doing this to herself. Believe me, a lot of us ladies, from average to gorgeous all been through that chaotic loop of choosing the same type of guy and not realizing it's us who needs to look within ourselves and change to find/attract someone better.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      i never looked at this this way,You are exactly right, it's THEM that do this to themselves! This is it perfectly Tealights,it's not that they're "victims" or that anyone's any more or less fortunate. Thank You for shining light on this perspective,you are gifted when you can help ME to see something i've always wondered!
      
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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

Real love, and a good healthy relationship is about so much more than a pretty face, and a nice body. There are plenty of physically beautiful people who have a lot of emotional damage on the inside of themselves. Just because someone looks good on the outside doesn't mean that person is healthy on the inside.

You need to look for women in your own league with whom you have shared interests, and real compatibility instead of pining away for celebrity strangers who will never cross your path.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  you are right,but knowing if i ever had that,i would'nt fuck it up is torture
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    ... but they aren't perfect things, the way you refer to the women you find attractive is rather objectifying whether you realize it, or not.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      how am i objectifying them by wishing i could have a shot at making them happy,and being pretty happy myself? not being sarcastic, really want to know.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        It's kinda objectifying and disrespectful to refer to women that you find attractive as "that".
        
        Regardless, the likelyhood of you, and or the he majority of the users on this website ever dating the attractive, young, celebrity women to whom you refer is very small, because they run in different circles. They're just naturally going to meet, and date guys who are in their field.
        
        It's not a big deal, it's just how things are.
        
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Doesnormalmatter

4 years ago

Get back to me when your rich and famous and and see if your that way. The wealth and fame changes their love life big time I reckon....

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CountessDouche

4 years ago

Imo, people who decide to be famous (and yes, it is a decision. With an ever expanding crop of new celebs, it would be incredibly easy to fade into obscurity) have severe mental problems. There is literally no sane reason to choose a life of being stalked by crazy fans, constantly photographed & followed, constantly analyzed and obsessively held under a microscope, held accountable for your every word, action & dietary choice, forced to undergo unrealistic diet & fitness regimens...shall I go on? If they honestly love acting or music, there are many ways to pursue it without being in the limelight.

Its plain narcissism & hunger for fame, notoriety & money & it's gross. Any sane person would realize that being a super famous celebrity would be it's own special brand of hell.

So, no wonder those people can't have healthy relationships. They aren't healthy people.

You are simply projecting a normal & balanced personality on to them because you don't know anything about them & as such, they are the perfect, beautiful blank canvas for you to foist your fantasies on.

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leggs91200

4 years ago

Well, when a pretty woman is also rich and famous, she has droves of people throwing themselves at her feet.

Plus, it is in women's nature to date assholes, losers, abusers, and everything else none of us would want our own daughters dating.

You are not alone in wishing you could date certain celebrities. There are tons of people like that. Why do you imagine soap operas are so popular?
I remember when I was a little kid (single digit age) and would see some beautiful girl or woman on TV, I thought, "You know, maybe she will be in the neighborhood and I will bump into her". The problem was that I grew up in a neighborhood that isn't exactly in Hollywood.

It seems though like you are having a hard time separating fantasy from reality. People tend to date at least close to their own league. Someone like Katy Perry probably isn't looking to date someone who works a 9 to 5 for everyday wages.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  You are so right,and i know i'll never meet any of these women in this life,it's just something i have to live with. I meet the ones who are worn out,with 15 kids from 6 baby's daddys and working at burger king,it's just the way it is. This is just something that secretly consumes me,knowing what i've got to offer,but seeing women like that with garbage,especially when they cheat on them. Why on earth would anybody who's with someone like katy perry cheat on her,and always with some stripper or something!! Or like mac miller, this guy's with ariana grande and all it would've taken was for him to quit getting high,and he could'nt even do that, for her! I know, i'm wasting time even dwelling on this, it just pisses me off that i could be so much better for these women,yet it's always some dipshit that gets them instead. Such is life, thanks for your reply,i really like it!
  
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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

I feel like a lot of famous people have lots of baggage. Demi Lovato for example she seems like a great person but has a problem with cocaine and pretty sure has overdosed few times. Imagining trying to be with someone on some heavy shit like it’s to much baggage. Then again how many fans are noticed. I’m sure the dating game as a famous person isn’t easy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  but regular people have issues too and their relationships can be worked out.
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    4 years ago
    
    Yeah but I’m meaning like the type of stuff that would turn me away from a relationship seems more prone in famous people. Like It seems it would be harder dating someone more popular because of that. I mean many people have baggage but a lot of famous people I’ve been a fan of have had serious problems. Where as someone not in the spotlight I can find easier without some bad addiction. If that makes sense.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      well yeah the drug addictions are a real issue,but when you see some clown land someone like Katy Perry or Ariana Grande and they fuck up and can't get their shit together, it is exhausting,i mean c'mon,you've got a hot,rich woman, never have to worry about anything ever again,and get to travel the world and make love with someone like that...but still fuck it up cause you're just not right for them.
      
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      - mauzi
        
        4 years ago
        
        Neither are you. You would fuck it up way worse.
        
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        [Old Memory]
        
        4 years ago
        
        Agreed
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        4 years ago
        
        Sometimes takes many to find your soalmate. But yeah anyone would want that but personality is just as important. Some of these people may be talented but end up being just as shitty as anyone else.
        
        Ariana seems like shes with a new guy each week. It’s like she can’t hold down a relationship. Idk if it’s the other side all the time. I mean I can understand the Mac Miller situation a bit because he was very depressed and all but it’s like she searches for someone perfect when noone ever will truly be. I also wouldn’t say you'd have no worries over anything when with someone like that because you will just as much as anyone. Because they have money and look the way they do won’t cover up how they truly are. You still got everything to worry about.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        deep down i know you're right...it just seems like as you say with Ariana,if it were me she would'nt be in a different relationship every week,guarantee that! got to run,be back tonight
        
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Mrown

4 years ago

Since when do they have problem with finding a partner?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Just look at all the breakups/failed relationships and marriages.. They can get people,but it's never right,it's like they are on one level and the guys are on another
  
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  - Mrown
    
    4 years ago
    
    "they are on one level and the guys are on another" - ugh, you're just a sweaty neckbeard, who's just so enraged he can't find a gf. for a second there I thought you were highlighting a major problem with lives of celebrities but it turns out you're just a jealous, sore loser
    
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    - leggs91200
      
      4 years ago
      
      Maybe it is his guy? https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSfDhzx7pdg1d98NyovG5qQTSSyEVH9kqQpQoCWYCGvJ_Fh3jHL
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      and for a second i thought you had some sense.
      
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Meowypowers

4 years ago

How would you know, and why care? It is difficult being int the public eye all the time.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I get this and don't argue,but what i'm talking about is when you find yourself in an actual relationship with someone like ariana Grande lets say,and you fuck it up because you can't get your shit together,or you don't appreciate what you've got, it is fucking sickening! Then you know that if it were you(which you know it won't be),but if it were,how you would appreciate having someone like her and would make it work. I guess what gets me is hearing the hurt and need for what you want to give them,but can't because someone else (who clearly does'nt deserve them) already has them,and then going one step further fucks it up,while you're sitting back willing to give anything just to get a chance. I guess it is like jealousy,yet not.
  
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bigbudchonga

4 years ago

I think it's possible they actually have an unintentionally, self-imposed, very restricted dating pool.

The amount of them who only date other famous people, or people they find through work / on the job etc is very high. My guess would be they probably hear loads of guys ask them out everyday, but essentially laugh it off as a cat call.

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Asatchi

4 years ago

Looks have nothing to do with how successful you will be in a relationship. Looks may get a foot in the door but you need more than that to sustain a relationship long term.
It's a very shallow perspective to think that just because someone is physically attractive therefore they shouldn't be single. Life doesn't work like that and the older you get the more you realise this is the case.

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