Women do you get significantly more attached to men who make you orgas

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I was reading an article on sexuality and the article said that the purpose of the female orgasm is to increase attachment in women in romantic relationships. Also the article said that orgasms that happen during intercourse cause more attachment then those that happen during foreplay. Women what do you think try to be honest and examine the way that you have felt for different partners that you have had if your a virgin don't vote or comment because your in no place to form an opinion.

Yes 2
Not really there are other reasons I get attached 2
Yes but there are other things that are much more important 1
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    No. I found it quite the opposite.

    The orgasms got better as the relationship bloomed.

    this is something perhaps the study should consider.

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    • Satchmo
      12 years ago

      Another interesting thing I've wondered about maybe I should make another poll is sex with someone you love more likely to result in more orgasms and more intense orgasms. There could be other reasons the sex got better as well. One would be if your partner was inexperienced before you. Also it's likely the more you guys have had sex the more he has gotten used to what you like. I'm not saying either of these is the case I'm just curious if you think thee are good possibilities or if it's the attachment thing it's probably a combination of both though

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        plus there's the aspect of communication. the more open you and your partner are to each other, the more apt you'll be in tune with each other in bed

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        • Satchmo
          12 years ago

          Very true

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    yes. naturally i am more "attached" to partners that make me orgasm. the better and the more often, the more "attached" i feel.
    Denying that would take a lesson in futility.

    However, i do believe that there's things MUCH more important. Of course the sexual level on a partnership should work out, but to even _GET_ there, in a partnership way, there's so many other things that have to be just right...

    Just as example: A person can be the best lover i ever had, if they lie to me and repeatedly betray my trust, i can't be with them or feel attached.
    Same with putting something else as most important for them, i couldn't be with a person that permanently puts their career as more important than me, no matter their sexual qualities.

    I guess you get what i'm trying to express.

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    • Satchmo
      12 years ago

      Can sex be a deal breaker for you if other things in the relationship are really good. Also will you put up with a lot more crap if the sex is really good

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      • TerryVie
        12 years ago

        Too specialised questions. It would be a case-per-case basis.
        If i WAS in a monogamic relationship, it COULD be a dealbreaker. I have a high sex drive, if my partner has a very low one and feels annoyed by me about this, there's little future.

        At the same time, yes, if the sex is great i'll put up with more stuff. but the same is true for great food. or great massages. or, to be honest, a great wallet.
        In all cases, there's simply things i won't put up with. But everything thats "exceptionally" good in a relationship helps to accept minor flaws of the partner(such as leaving clothes all over the flat, wherever she undressed, playing on MY save games and account on the PS3, having ME clean the kitchen all the time while she sits on the couch and watches TV...(note that i use she because i just reference my current partner, but it would be no different with a he))

        A partnership is always symbiotic, and all of the positive things far outweigh the stuff that you simply put up with and accept. So yes, naturally sex also does that, and is even more important if you only get that from your partner in a relationship.

        To be absolutely honest, i would be MORE attached to a partner that is giving me less orgasms, but has more mutual fetishes and dirty ideas, than to a partner that gives me plenty of great orgasms, but has less mutual fetishes-

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        • Satchmo
          12 years ago

          Hold on a sec are you male or female this poll was created to get a female insight not a male insight a
          and a herero insight no homophob but lesbian opinions are of little interest to me. If you are bi and a woman then do you prefer penis or a woman with a strap on or vibrator

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          • TerryVie
            12 years ago

            i am female.
            i have been in relationships with men when i was younger.
            i am in a open relationship with a female partner.
            i am still having sex with men, but do not consider myself bi, as they have no interest to me in a romantic or relationship way.
            I know i am not accurately representing your target audience, but i have made enough experiences in both fields to have been confident enough to chime in. If that was overstepping the boundaries set, i apologize.

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            • Satchmo
              12 years ago

              No I think you having experience with men gives u just as good insight as a hetero woman

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