Women cheating

Is it normal for women to cheat and get away with it. If you're a guy don't vote but please feel free to comment. I'd like an honest answer from all the women who are in a relationship; yes if you cheat,no if you don't. And if you cheat are you still in love with your partner? I know women are more likely to lie then men, they are better at keeping secrets and better at concealing affairs whereas men would like to think that their partners do not cheat when they most probably do.

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Based on 123 votes (39 yes)
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  • koifish

    I'm a woman and I never understand why people cheat. Just breakup with the person if you aren't happy, you're hurting everyone else because of cheating.

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  • anya07

    be it woman or man if she/he really loves you she/he will never cheat on you

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  • crazypants

    Your being sexist!!! And im a girl and ive never cheated and i never would. Also to be honest i know a lot more guys that cheat than girls.. But its not about the sex of the person its how sh*tty of a person you are cause if you do cheat your a piece of sh*t. So dont blame girls unless your a kid who never got raise and your just stupid.

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  • bella1975

    If you are cheated once, you will re--do again and again...

    My comments to women still in marriage..please do not cheat to your husband..if you do not happy with them...just get divorce!why must you hurt them...?

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  • I've been cheated on, but have never cheated and I'm a woman.

    Shit happens.

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  • lululu

    i've never cheated on my partner but when a hot guy passes me by, i imagine how it would be if we spent one night together. i get horny just about the thought of cheating my bf with a handsome man. But i know it would not be fair so i make my best to keep from doing it. I think everyone had cheated his soul with the thought because it 's human nature but if you have strong values, transmitted by your family...you will be able to avoid cheating expecially when you share a common project of happiness and growth.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    No it's not normal to cheat.

    If your partner is cheating it is because he or she values their own pleasure more than they respect you.

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  • HurrrDurrr

    Truth be told women and men cheat for different reasons. When polled 95% of men cheated for...GASP emotional reasons (they aren't getting what they need emotionally from their relationship), they develop emotional bonds with the people they cheat with. Women on the other hand are more likely to cheat for physical/sexual reasons, and are more likely to have one night stands. This is also why women are less likely to be caught than men. Also where the idea that men cheat more comes from. When you develop a relationship and spend a lot of time with the person you cheat with you risk getting caught much more easily for obvious reasons (paper trail, being missing for unexplained periods of time.)

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    • Max2016

      Where are you getting the data from?

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  • IIN15005

    (32 YO straight male) I think most of it has to do with dissatisfaction, as experienced by either sex in their main relationship. Both sexes want to have the best sex they can, and might (or might not) look elsewhere. Depends on the person and the prevailing societal expectations, amongst other factors.

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  • bella1975

    I don't like to cheat, honestly!
    If you expect your partner honest with you without cheating behind your back, guess we have to do so in the same thing..am I right?

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  • 8Serene8

    My ex was a scumbag who refused to change his crappy ways. As for not just leaving him it's because I had nowhere to go.

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  • hovera01

    Most women cheat, honey. Most of us do.

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  • Sweetz

    Not into cheating but Girls are naturally better liars

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  • flowers-madness

    I cheated and got caught, and now i'm in the doghouse. I develop crushes on other guys than my boyfriend every now and then but this time I actually did it and got caught the same night it happened thanks to our fucking nosey neighbor. I still love him and still wanna be with him, but I don't regret doing it.

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  • 8Serene8

    The saying "once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply to everyone that has cheated in their past. It only applies to people that don't care who they cheat on. I for one cannot cheat on someone I love.

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  • 8Serene8

    I cheated on my last boyfriend. But that's because I hadn't been happy with him for 3 1/2 years. We were together for 4 1/2 years so until the first year mark came around things were decent. But it went downhill from there. Not that it's an excuse to cheat but what I'm trying to say is: you cannot cheat on someone you love. It's impossible. For me at least. The man I've been with now for a year and 8 months is my world. I never could cheat on him nor do I ever feel the want to. He makes me 100% happy and I don't even find anyone but him attractive. He is gorgeous, sexy, handsome, sweet caring loving romantic in his ways and he makes me feel needed. I love that. Before him no guy has ever made me feel like I was needed by them. It's a wonderful feeling.

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    • BoredGuy

      until you are not in love with him? Some respect you had for your old partner. Respect is not about love.

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  • taggy

    I was married for over 20 years and for 15 of them my husband hardly ever made love to me, so i turned to someone else. What i should of done was leave him but i did really love him and we had 3 lovely kids but unfortunately because i had an affair it made me feel less of a person and because my husband's treatment it left me feeling worthless.

    i am now out of those relationships and with someone who loves me truly and i've never been happier and i can honestly say having an affair was the worse thing i ever did and i would never do it again

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    • BoredGuy

      having an affair is so cheap... so i agree with you.

      I'm firmly against cheating but if your man(or woman) is not "doing" you then i can at least see a strong reason why you did what you did. (was he working too much or just never in mood?)

      As you said you should have left him before coming to the point of having an affair.

      Some women have no problem with their man doing some other chick if they have lost their sex drive as they know men separate their emotions from sex. This ofc doesn't apply for men as they would never accept it and also women rarely can separate the 2(not to mention unlike in your case, men don't really lose their sex drive.) Ofc all this paragraph is NOT a healthy solution and is NOT recommended but its just a solution some may consider.

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