Woman who work...angry or flattered?

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(I'm married)is it normal to want to tell your coworker you're attracted to them BUT you don't want to date them?

I really enjoy talking to my coworker and I amd so attracted to her(at the moment). The thing is, I don't want to date her, sex her or anything more than let her know how I feel.

If I wasn't married, I'd feel the same way. We are not compatible at all.

Ladies, how would you respond if your guy coworker expressed his attraction towards you but only wanted to keep it as friends.
Angry? – Flattered?

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  • Zorak
    6 years ago

    Why say anything at all then??? You are going to create problems for yourself at work if you do..

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    • charli.m
      6 years ago

      This. I mean, what exactly would be the point of bringing it up? What is to be gained by either party?

      I don't get it.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        I thinks it's verbal diarrhea or verbal exhibitionism. The person wants to get these feelings off his chest and doesn't seem to care that this poor attractive coworker is neither a confessional, nor a therapist's couch. Maybe OP is a douchebag narcissist?

        I personally think it would be selfish and pointless to spill the beans on this one, because no good can come of it. Worst case scenario OP wants to cheat on his spouse, and actually goes through with it. Best case scenario things get awkward at work, the coworker is freaked out and selfish ass OP gets in trouble for sexual harassment. None of this is acceptable in my eyes.

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      • Zorak
        6 years ago

        Nothing at all. Seems completely idiotic to me. He claims to be married too. Fucking idiot.

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          He sounds like steaming pile of poo to me.

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  • radar
    6 years ago

    It's fine to think it, but you're not doing her any favors by telling her. I would be so uncomfortable continuing to work with someone who had expressed this to me.

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      If a married guy spewed that verbal poo at me I would be disgusted, and probably grow to hate him.

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  • LGK4
    6 years ago

    I'd think you're a bit of tard. keep your boners to yourself dude

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Tell her, she obviously would want to date you, but sadly she has the personality of a carrot, but fortunately her butt is large so she is not completely worthless. This will be the best day of her life.

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  • gillam1
    6 years ago

    This site is called Is It Normal. I just wanted an opinion as what I'm thing is normal.

    I had someone open up to me and I was flattered but, adult enough to take it as a compliment.

    Nothing awkward. I just informed her that I was happily married but appreciate the flattery. I didn't think any less of her.

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