Wishing that men still took care of and looked after women

What you're describing is one of the best types of relationships men and women can have today.

Things get really complicated when both partners work and things get even worse when they're kids involved.

If I had millions of dollars and were ready to marry I'd look for someone just like you.
I find women like you far sexier and more desirable than a workaholic career gal.

I don't want my wife / serious girlfriend working or working too hard and I'd especially want her home raising the kids rather than making peanuts and orphaning them.

Girls/women working often makes them exhausted, unavailable, unhappy and opens the doorway and invites cheating.

Before some of the clowns on here disagree know that I've lived it.

I've dated career women that work 60 hours a week and they're too busy and tired for a personal relationship because they're already in a relationship with their jobs.
They are horrible partners. They are more like roommates you fuck after work and before breakfast. You don't see them hardly at all and it makes being committed to them a waste of time.
Always have to negotiate and work around their stupid work schedule is annoying as hell, then they have to fly out of town for their stupid job and you see them even less.

They actually spend a lot more time with their coworkers than their mate.
I can't be committed to someone like that, it's a waste of my life.

I've of course also dated girls without any jobs or had part time work and it's much better.
These gals are much more fun, have the time and freedom to travel, go out, spend quality time together :)

Let's face it most things are not important so that reduces the need for a lot of money.
Who really cares about buying $600 purses and wearing $500 shoes or driving a $90k Range Rover?

It's stupid and it's a waste of time working extra for those things.

Part of the reason I want to become a millionaire is so I can find the right woman and take care of her and probably raise a family together.

I'd like to travel the world with her for a few years before we settle down and pop out brats ;)

As long as she doesn't cheat on me and isn't a bitch she'll be taken care of her entire life.

So don't feel bad for wanting something more traditional. You sound pretty awesome to me and all you need is to find the right male and you'll be very happy!
:)

Some trolls on here think I'm an asshole but in reality they have no clue that I'm one of the best guys you'd ever be lucky enough to meet :)

Provided you found a man with the same outlook, why not?

I see it as we have the option to choose.

I'd hate it, myself, but that doesn't mean I can't see why it would work for some.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Good luck and don't ever give up on your dreams.

Sounds good to me.

It is normal, I always was looking for a man who would take care of me and our children, unfortunately different people have different understanding of word care and somehow think it's the same as control. What happened to me that I was the one who was taking care of everybody in the family and husband was taking control over my and my children's life and finances. Then I got sick of it and now I am a single parent and doesn't need anybody, because nobody can care for me and my children better then myself. And I definitely don't need anybody to control me and spend my money calling it care.

Did I write this? Oh, no I didn't. But I feel exactly the same! I'm going to school because I know chances are I'll have to work at least part time and it's smart to have that degree just in case you get divorced so you won't have to work for minimum wage.
I want the same stuff and I've had people tell me that won't work but I think it's perfectly normal
Good luck!

Im 20 and i want the same thing

The person above who says that being ahoy sewage is the easiest job in the world... Are you fucking kidding me?

Raising and taking care of children? Being the main point of contact for all education and health officials? Preparing and cooking three meals a day? Doing the dishes at least three times a day? Doing all of the grocery shopping? Knowing everyone's schedules inside out? Looking after/walking pets? Doing everyones laundry? Vacuuming? Polishing? Tidying up after everyone else's mess?

Sounds like a fucking doddle. Attitudes like this need to change. Being a housewife is one of the most stressful jobs you can have, and on top of that, hardly anyone ever recognises all of the hard work that goes into it, because apparently it's 'easy'.

Look, ffs, a quick lesson in feminism: it's all about .~*choice*~. If you want to be a full time Mum then go ahead, similarly for if you want to have a career. Feminism isn't about forcing you to be a business woman. It's just saying that you shouldn't get railed against for your choices, because: A. 'Eww that's too 'girly'', or B. 'That's not a woman's 'place''.

If you feel that way about how men treat women, then fair enough, whatever. Just know that they're your views, and don't judge anyone else by them.

To be honest, I would love a woman like that. It would actually motivate me to do better for myself, as well as her. It's a win win situation, no matter how you look at it. I've had this idea that women such as yourself would make better partners, as you could devote the time necessary for the relationship.
Just my opinion here, but I think women today are way too focused on careers and not enough on themselves.

My type of girl :-)

No you're not a fail! Don't ever say that to yourself!! Everyone has a different outlook on life, and you just have a neat old fashioned-ish one. Go ahead and live like Little House on the prairie if you like. Find yourself a decent man and live your dreams. I won't stop you.

Perhaps we should keep a zoo full of patriarchal men who don't believe in equality but do believe in controlling you.

I guess you are looking in the wrong places. Try the deep south or Appalachia, where many men feel a woman's place is in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, not in the work place.

Ok, not being 'ahoy sewage', being a 'house wife'.

Thank y'all. I honestly was kinda afraid to look at the comments on this question when I saw how many notices I had for it lol. I feel a lot better about it now :)

I'd want a BJ everyday.