Will be ever be more than "just friends"

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Before i started having sex with this guy we were friends for four months and now we have been having sex for four months..thats 8 months total that weve been "together" we talk EVERY single day from am to pm and act like were a couple. He both know we like each other alot and i asked him if this was ever going to be more than just this (whatever we have going on). And he said "well idk what the future holds i think labels ruin everything" So my question is should i just move on?? Or wait and see what happens with us

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  • cupcake_wants
    11 years ago

    Why should he buy the cow if he gets the milk for free?

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  • c3po950
    13 years ago

    thats a bullshit line guys use so he doesent have to admit anything i know cuz im a dude

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    Stay with him ad see how it works out

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  • heartbrokenbutterfly
    13 years ago

    he doesnt want a title so he can have all the sex without the commitment.

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  • anonymous420
    13 years ago

    Don't have sex with him if he's unwilling to call you his girlfriend. He might be trying to use you, but if he cares about you enough he should be willing to have you as his girlfriend.

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    • SaaaaaaaaayWhit
      13 years ago

      If your happy, and enjoying yourself i dont see what the big deal is? fyi anon420 using sex as a bargaining tool will make the situation worse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He technically has nothing holding him back from hooking up with someone else if there's no title. Wait a while, then give him an ultimatum.

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    • FMradio
      13 years ago

      If someone wants to cheat, the titles won't stop him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    This doesnt fit in with is it normal question and has nothing to do with being normal or not. But, wait and see if it progesses into anything.

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  • FMradio
    13 years ago

    Wait.

    Patiently.

    Free relationships are the best.

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  • animaguskid
    13 years ago

    The thing is without a label there's no solid rule keeping him from going out and sleeping with other women. I once had a sort of unofficial relationship. To be fair it was never as serious as your relationship and I was still a teenager at the time. Now I realize he never wanted to be official because he never really wanted to commit to me. He always knew that he wanted someone else but he was willing to let me hang around in the meantime. Just something to think about.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    This happened to me once. After the four month mark i tried to leve him but he gave me all this i care about u crap so i stayed. Waited for nine months and he broke my heart. He didn't even feel bad cuz it wasn't a real breakup. To this day I regret letting him play with my feelings like that. Never felt so used in my life. My advice is leave him for a guy who is can commit, even if he tries to get you to stay. Don't have the same regret as me :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Wait, definately. My current boyfriend of 1 year said almost the same thing to me in the beginning. If you really like him then just wait. He will come into his own and make it official when he is ready :-)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well what kinda question is that? Only you can know if he makes you happy. If you're old enough to have sex you're old enough to realize that you should start looking for someone who you really want to be serious with

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