Wife not interested in bj so asked me to get a gay man to do it

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We have been married for more than 3 years now, i love her a lot and we do all sort of vaginal sex but when it comes to oral or anal she does not want to, i mean at all. after few month of marriage i tricked her by licking her pussy when she was drunk and she loved it a lot, but would still not give blowjob or anal (not even full handjob). When i stopped eating her out, after sometime she said lets find a gay man who wants to give bj and wants to be fucked, we found one man. We tried it in a hotel first, it was wierd but then it became more frequent now he comes to our hours every 7-10 days (sometime we call sometime we comes as he wants sex) its strange but this arrangement was working for us as my wife likes me licking her vagina so much that she demands it every second day(even i enjoy it a lot) and i enjoy my share of oral and anal sex with this man and my wife also started enjoying while watching us. Now last week she wants it to stopped, but now i don't want to.
Is it normal that now i want to have sex with both my wife and this man

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    I think it was a terrible idea to begin with , bringing in a third party . I don't know how you ever ended up marrying a woman who didn't fully satisfy your needs and desires . I think she should open up her mind and horizons if she loves you but if not ... I don't know why she is with you ? it's not a difficult or unfair request you have . I would end up leaving because I refuse to spend my life with a woman who doesn't make me truly happy both sexually and out of the bedroom .

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  • mavericksam
    8 years ago

    issue closed, after lot of heated discussion . She disclosed she had problem with this man.
    i insisted to replace him with a women instead of man.
    I also asked if she will try blowjob herself then we will not have this issue. She insist that i need to get my penis and balls waxed and then she will try.
    she tried anal yesterday, it was amazing for me but not for her (she has a small frame)

    Lets see if she can do it, i may not have to go out

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  • Doesntmatter
    8 years ago

    I have trouble believing this post. She demands oral but refuses to give back. The solution is then for you to have gay sex to fulfill your sexual desires all while she watches. I think you should take some time to look and see what you want in life and then move on to figuring out tour relationship.

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  • iloverape
    8 years ago

    Why didn't you just slap your wife in the face, grab her by the neck and get her onto her knees then violently force your cock down her throat? Duh.

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    • mavericksam
      8 years ago

      issue closed now, that bitch is out now.
      i'm living with my gay friend now for few weeks and he is amazing.
      I'm not talking about bed, in general also living with this man has helped a lot, no fights no arguments.
      i must say living with her was becoming very tedious.

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  • mavericksam
    8 years ago

    I had anal sex with this man many times and sometimes after a drink she used to watch as well.
    Just to stop it now, she has tried anal sex but she sucks at it, she cannot bear it for even for few minutes.
    Handjob she gives sometimes but for blowjob she now want me to wax my balls and penis. Then "SHE WILL GIVE IT A TRY"

    Is there any other cheap solution which gives as smooth results as waxing ?

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  • Rick_Bawls
    8 years ago

    You should consider having the gay man tongue your anus or doing the gay man in the ass so that your wife can learn how it is done

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  • mavericksam
    8 years ago

    i wanted oral sex at that time so much, i was filled up to have it. It was not easy initially but now i want it and don't want to end.
    On the other hand i love her too much to leave her and i like giving her oral sex, its not that i'm doing it only for her.
    It was not as if she watched every session, sometimes she watched.
    Advice what to do now

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    • Rebel_2
      8 years ago

      Has she tried giving you a hand job yet?

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  • 213
    8 years ago

    a gay, why you accepted a man she turned you into a bisexual now, you were suppose to get yourself a female partner not gay now you gay

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