Wife has no sexual fantasies - iin?

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My 43 yo wife of 18 years insists that she has no sexual fantasies, doesn't ever daydream or think about sex, or anything like that. I have tried many times to get her to open up and discuss her fantasies with me, but she insists that she doesn't have any. She also says she never masturbates, which I believe. Is this normal?

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  • Goomats
    11 years ago

    I suspect that she has sexual fantasies, but is nervous to tell you about them.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Follow up - turns out my wife is asexual, which explains a lot! Apparently asexual people can still have sex and even enjoy it, they just feel no sexual attraction to other people, and have little or no desire for sex. It may be time to accept reality and move on.

    Also, asexuality is most definitely NOT normal.

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  • Gasmasker
    12 years ago

    Perhaps she is asexual. It's normal. Asexuals make up about 10% of our population.

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  • BlueBarracuda
    12 years ago

    Perhaps she's just never really put thought into it.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    u need to get her blood pumping and juices flowing better.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Not really. We have a regular sex life, which she enjoys, and she is highly orgasmic (she typically orgasms at least twice each time). It's not a lack of interest for sex or a lack of interest in me.

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